I'm 2 months away from being 21 years old. I get comments that I look good and most people seem to think I bag a lot of women (most people think it's double digits or as high as 50). I'm 6'1 with a low body fat percentage (my veins and abs are seen without trying to find em) weighing 180lbs (formerly 200+ until injury, people notice I lost tons of weight). I am also a former american football player at the collegiate level. I live in Quebec (the french part of Canada) in the city of Montreal.

I've been told that women are intimidating by me. I get the vibe that I sink my own boats as a result. Is it a result of me being too direct? I'd appreciate any insight on what I could be doing that makes chicks intimidated by me and what I could change in my behavior to improve on that level.