19,virgin,never kissed a girl, for whatever reason handsome,

BIGJ0N · 2017-02-05T22:33:54+00:00

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Murfdigidy · 2017-02-05T22:07:06+00:00

Read side bar, your issue is common.

I was a mid 20s Virgin considered tall and handsome, now good get just about any girl. Read side bar

2017-02-06T07:21:11+00:00

Ahhh you sound just like 19 year old me. Lucky for you, if you actually look the way you say you do, it's easy to step your game up

Basically, if you like this girl then tell her outright. Next time you see her, spend some time with her and just find a time to kiss her. If you're not sure if she's open to it, test the waters with some touching. If I can't tell, I usually start with the normal physical contact, and if she's reciprocating, try touching her leg. If that goes down well and she doesn't move away or push you off, then kiss her. Look her dead in the eyes and kiss her. You shouldn't even have to say anything, but if she's talking too much, say "wait," stare into her eyes for a second, and then do it. EzPz

As for meeting new women, just say hi. See a cute barista? Pretend you don't know what you want and ask her what she likes. Flirting from there is easy. At the very least, it's good practice flirting and if you want you can step it up from there by asking her out or getting her number. I can't really give you tips for macking at parties or bars because that's not my scene for picking up new girls, but the day game is all about good convos, eye contact and smiling, and some subtle negs while you get physical. Good luck m8

Tattered · 2017-02-06T00:05:44+00:00

Read the sidebar, get on tindr, treat tindr as a learning experience

Literally treat anyone you meet as a throwaway as most tindr relationships don't go far. Use that to try out escalating the relationship from "Hi" to sex

After that you can work on approaching girls irl and establishing longer relationships

Garthanthoclops · 2017-02-06T05:47:34+00:00

It doesn't sound like you're confident, man. If you were confident you would try to escalate things with the women you are interested in. I have been the same way, though. I wouldn't describe myself as confident usually, but sometimes I muster just enough courage to go for something. Getting turned down is only part of it. As my dad often tells me, you learn through failure, not success. The more you try, the more chance you have at success. A Sebastian from the Little Mermaid says: kiss the girl!

cyan1618 · 2017-02-06T08:36:59+00:00

We need proof about "very attractive".

MindsEvolve · 2017-02-06T15:15:02+00:00

A lot of people are recommending to start going crazy with cold approaching when you haven't even been able to kiss a girl.

I just want to offer a different option for you so you don't crash and burn. Give yourself gentler opportunities. When I was a virgin, I simply engaged in my social circle more and went to more parties. Eventually, a girl sent her friend to tell me that she would have sex with me. I didn't say yes that night, but after having a chance to think it over for a couple weeks, I finally said eh what the hell, and asked her out. Man, that was an awkward experience. But it's supposed to be for your first time.

PM me if you want to talk more. It might take some time to build up your confidence and remove your doubts and fears.

Big_TX · 2017-02-06T00:25:14+00:00

I use to be in your shoes.

My advice is watch infield footage of dates and day game. And check out this video series to learn some "moves" https://m.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL012A653B317FBD0D

Sadly some of the videos got deleted. Ignore everything he says about Value and the part where he throws the girls hand away (that's weird). He's using a very old method and out dated way of thinking when he talks about value. But the videos do a good job of teaching moves. You can also search "kino escalation, PUA" if you want more. You don't have to limit yourself to any sort of routine.

If you are on a date, it's been going well and it's been a good amount of time, you can just stop her and say look here, then go in for the kiss.

Title	19,virgin,never kissed a girl, for whatever reason handsome,
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Date	February 5, 2017 9:32 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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