How do you flirt with a girl without coming off too strong?

msmiitz · 2017-02-24T14:15:44+00:00

It's hard in the beginning, definitely. You have to sort of trust your intuition sometimes, and try some things. Most importantly, stay within your ethical guidelines. Extremes tend to lead to negative results.

BrettEllisDotNet · 2017-02-25T04:00:23+00:00

If you scare women off - GOOD! They probably weren't available or interested in the first place. The idea is to find women who are actually interested in you. With flirting, you don't want to be too direct. Flirting is an art form of playful banter with underlying sexual connotations. You want it to be a mysteriously playful dance of words and suggestive actions. If you are too direct you remove the mystery and it loses its energy. Dave Perotta from Post Grad Casanova wrote a good book called "Conversation Casanova". Give that a read and it'll help you solve your problems with actionable tips.

mbillion · 2017-02-24T18:15:43+00:00

Here's the problem with all these posts. The real trick is learning to read people and validate the emotions they are trying to solicit.

You'll never have a blanket how to act because in some situations the appropriate thing would be to come on hard.

You need to learn to read and validate not plan and react

crazymusicman · 2017-02-24T05:47:12+00:00

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vg55bBfpXW0

2017-02-25T04:23:16+00:00

Show intent with your body language, then when you flirt verbally, make sure you say it in a cheeky/playful way

Title	How do you flirt with a girl without coming off too strong?
Author	throwawaybobbyhill
Upvotes	21
Comments	8
Date	February 24, 2017 5:25 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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