Why should you listen to me?

Am I the greatest PUA that has ever walked the face of the earth? NO

Do I bang hot models/actresses on a nightly basis? NO

Do I hook up with multiple good looking girls every single week that I meet through daygame and nightgame? YES

Did I used to be fat, socially awkward, only sleep with gross girls and even then have multiple 2 year dry spells? YES

The reason why you have approach anxiety is because you are looking twenty steps ahead and you're feeling overwhelmed.

Views this shit like checkpoints in a video game. You have to reach each check point 1 by 1 and when you go out into the infield and you refuse to even make contact with a girl, you are shooting yourself in the foot OVER AND OVER AGAIN.

The cure for approach anxiety is not OPENING or APPROACHING but rather SOCIALIZING with NO INTENT.

Simple hellos as you walk by people, complimenting girls outfits, using the familiarity opener and then saying "well you're not who I thought you were, have a good one."

I made two videos about this that will really help you out if this interests you.

This one is an infield example of me doing this: https://youtu.be/VS33FtHWOj0

This one is a speech I gave at a recent meetup in NYC where I dive REALLY deep into this: https://youtu.be/-zbNWOEz6w8

Hope I can help.