Are small innuendoes (say some sexual ones) ok to say in a conversation?

letsgetrandy · 2017-03-07T17:42:33+00:00

Small ones, big ones, whatever.

I use innuendo in all conversations, all day, every day. Apparently, it's working for me.

treebreath · 2017-03-07T21:53:26+00:00

Whatever you do don't bring up a porn you saw in casual advice. That's terrible advice. Instant creep.

FUCK_YEA_GLITTER · 2017-03-07T14:30:52+00:00

Pretty much always yes but obviously calibrate. Don't say those things to your boss, etc

Woujo · 2017-03-07T16:19:18+00:00

The main key in dealing with women in any capacity is that she must be more emotionally invested in you than you are in her. This goes for sex talk as well. You should show sexual interest, but only very slightly, until she shows sexual interest in you.

This is how I turn conversations sexual: I say blatantly sexual things, but I don't aim them at her. So for example, I may say "I was watching a porn the other day, and there was a lawyer character and she goes 'I'm a public defendant' and I was like 'it's public defender' idiot." By doing this, I break the sex barrier so we can talk about sexual things, I show that I am not afraid to talk about my sexuality, but at the same time I don't make her feel like she is a target.

Once she starts talking about sex stuff, I act like a prude and that she has to do some work to fuck me.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-03-07T18:31:45+00:00

Or should they be saved for more intimate conversations not during flirting sessions?

Getting "sexual" in your words is not necessary. It's icing on the cake or a little something to up the difficulty curve if you're more advanced.

The basics involve physical escalation. You don't need sexy talk at all. You can talk sexy and hit her up with innuendos all day but it's all for nothing if you can't pull the trigger with physical escalation.

On the other hand, you can physically escalate while holding the most normal and possibly innocent conversation. Which actually be more sexual and create better sexual tension than being blatantly sexual through words.

You don't need to play games with emotional investment. You don't need her to be needy. You don't need to talk about porn or bring up sex at all.

Actions speak louder than words. Those are the basics. You can add sexy talk later once you have the basics down but it's not necessary to do it now.

SeinoMore · 2017-03-08T04:56:01+00:00

"Do you like sports?....say no more.. say no more!"

Title	Are small innuendoes (say some sexual ones) ok to say in a conversation?
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Date	March 7, 2017 2:27 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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