I think I've gotten to the point where I realize that I'm not being productive with my time. When I go out, and I see a girl I want to talk to, I act on that impulse and approach her. I used to think that was admirable and worth doing, but I eventually started falling into a predictable pattern: I approach them, get their phone number, and get nowhere with them. And so, I am starting to realize that there's a deeper problem I should fix first: my general aptitude with people and my self-esteem/confidence (inner game as you guys call it). I am not a people person by any stretch. If anything, I prefer to keep away from interactions due to how awkward and introverted I usually act. I know that I want to have sex with college girls, but I also wanted to work on myself, and frankly I don't think that this was the best way to go about it. I am not afraid to go up to a girl to ask for her number, but that doesn't mean that I've reached success just with a lack of care. I still need to work on myself, but I don't know how. Should I stop this for now, and look elsewhere? What should I do then?