Me and girl know that "coming to my place to chill" pretty much means I'm trying to escalate to sex. Unfortunately she's been unwilling to put out lately and insists we're just friends and we don't do anything sexual (we have before). The most lately has just been kissing.

So when I ask her to come, she pretty much refuses. We do go other places and kinda kiss and hold hands but that's it. Is there really no way to get past the hamster?