I see a lot of people post about meeting women - suggestions on where and how, what to say, how to act. But I never see anyone posting about making a real connection. It seems to me that seduction can't help with this. Maybe it can get you laid, but I'm finding that meeting girls is easy: meeting a girl you really click with is hard. I go out on plenty of dates, invariably spend hours talking, touching, usually making out at the end or doing more. But it invariably fizzles out after a short time. They either are busy, or flaky, no matter how I handle things. I'm someone who has a lot of hobbies, busy, know how to have a good time and keep conversation going. And yet, I can never find anyone where it just flows. Where were talking all the time, wanting to see eachother etc. Even the other night - went out with a girl a second time. We had a great dinner with my friends, went to a bar after and we were hard core making out there. She said she likes to take things slow and didn't want to rush into something (like going back to her place) but it just seems like the steady flow of a real connection isn't there.

Anyone have any thoughts or suggestions?