How to make my life more interesting in the summer and not feel so lonely?

ineedhelpaz321 · 2017-05-02T15:19:31+00:00

very focused on basketball and my classes

This is good and you should only change it if you're absolutely overloading yourself. Your own goals and development should always be the priority.

That said, part of your development involves your relationships, so you certainly should learn to cut up some time in your schedule for socializing. Pro ballers still have friends.

You can definitely meet people if you're taking summer classes. The good thing about that is you'll all be in similar situations, likely working and taking those classes, and you'll all still want to have fun in the summer. You can take a leading role and bring people that you meet in class together for events outside of class, even just on weekends.

honestly I wish I had a girl or someone to talk to (as pathetic as that sounds)

That's a natural part of humanity and you should never apologize for wanting better relationships. However,

I think I need a girlfriend

isn't the right mindset you should have right now. The best relationships are additions to an already fulfilling life, not fillers to the perceived gaps you might have.

What do you guys suggest I do this summer

Gather anyone you can from classes and wherever else you know people and get together for whatever type of summer shenanigans you enjoy, as often as you can. Continue to meet people in your classes and work hard on setting up next year well for yourself in every regard.

Udso · 2017-05-02T17:56:58+00:00

Get a serving job at a bar or bartend. The friends you make their will take you to the craziest parties and introduce you to the hottest chick's. Within a month you'll have all the excitement you'll ever need and the cash to fuel your lifestyle.

MacFatty · 2017-05-02T19:36:03+00:00

My first thought is drop by some public courts and shoot some hoops there. Bring a ball, and if people are playing ask if you can join them. Let's you stay on your game while meeting people outside your circle.

Woujo · 2017-05-02T18:18:48+00:00

Find a cool hobby.

ThrowawayPUA · 2017-05-02T19:22:39+00:00

You could go to summer school. No reason you have to go home over the summer. Or you could get a cool internship.

ineedhelpaz321 · 2017-05-02T20:01:55+00:00

Meetup app. I'm thinking of using it as I've heard nothing but good things about it. Also just circumstance sometimes works!

ineedhelpaz321 · 2017-05-03T06:43:46+00:00

Go jogging on the school track, lots of girl runners from the track team are there, probably a lot of cheerleaders practicing too. Go where the fitness chicks are.

Title	How to make my life more interesting in the summer and not feel so lonely?
Author	ineedhelpaz321
Upvotes	4
Comments	16
Date	May 2, 2017 2:54 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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