This is about the girl that I opened (and #-closed) in my last post (on r/seddit). Not our first interaction since but nothing before this has really been noteworthy.

I'm really confused about this girl. She isn't really giving me mixed signals, she's just really hard to read. I'm not super experienced with girls but I don't like fucking around with subtle bullshit, especially after I've opened. However she's super shy and all her friends are pretty sub-par (in the looks department) so I'm pretty sure she sees herself as average at best.

I walked over to where she was sitting at lunch. She was by herself.

Me: Hey, I need to talk to you for a second

Her: Ok

I move some stuff out the way and sit down

Me: I think you're absolutely beautiful alright

She starts to smile and blush

Me: I haven't liked anyone this year because I didn't really think anyone is worth it, but you're definitely worth it. However, I don't really know you and we have no classes together. I'm also really unsure about how interested you are. So I'm gonna ask you a question, it's ok if you want to say no, just be direct, but I'm trying to get a feel for what's going through your head.

Her: Ok

Me: Do you want to do something after school next week?

Her: smiles and nods Yea sure.

Me: Ok cool, so just text me what day works best for you later, I've gotta go.

(I already had her phone number but I accidentally deleted it)

The entire time a friend of mine that knows I'm into this girl was like 20 feet I'm the background waving and making faces and doing thrusting movements and just trying to distract me so I was laughing while I was talking to her and it wasn't awkward.

I'm not sure what's gonna happen next, but I'm definitely glad I stopped beating around the bush and just did it. I know it probably wasn't the smoothest thing ever, but I've lived too much of my life in the friend zone to fall back inside.

Be direct guys.