Becoming interesting enough?

nashimo · 2017-05-09T23:56:43+00:00

You already know a lot if you're a nerd, talk about movies you like, talk about stuff in the news you heard about. Watch TMZ, see what hollywood is doing, most women love that stuff and it never hurts to know what the kardashians are doing.

nashimo · 2017-05-10T01:25:47+00:00

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PM_dirty_pictures · 2017-05-10T06:49:22+00:00

Talk about the things that interest you.

Girls don't often care so much about what you're passionate about, but that you have something that you can get excited about (bonus points if she likes it too)

I've had dates where I spoke briefly about video games, or super heroes and it all ends up okay, as long as you're confident, passionate, and don't spend too much time on something she's clearly not into

TunechiOnYoTunaFish · 2017-05-12T15:19:38+00:00

You don't need to be that interesting. You just need to be fun.

Fun is cool. Self-amusement is the best way I've found to be fun. If you're having an awesome time by yourself or with your buddies being goofy, joking around, and even being kind of obnoxious (not an asshole, but just obnoxious), you automatically become more attractive to women. Being a fun guy makes her have fun, and since women make decisions based on emotions primarily, you want her emotions to be as fun and carefree as possible.

Spend your time watching movies and reading books because you like them and find them interesting, not because you're trying to impress some girl. This is neediness, and girls smell it like a shark smells a single drop of blood. Have fun, be self-amusing and non-needy, and you will automatically become more attractive.

I'm a big fan of RSD Tyler because he professes this, and it's what I've found works. He's kind of an irritating douche, but he's right. Watch this. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1m_ttJ-XnGA

anon1moos · 2017-05-10T14:50:43+00:00

do you have any hobbies? or do you literally just study from sun up to sun down? If its the second one, fix it.

Zetland · 2017-05-10T20:32:40+00:00

Well, you're a maths/science nerd. Have you ever seen QI? That's unashamedly academic but extremely interesting too. A few series of that could make anyone a more interesting person.

I have to recommend podcasts too as a massive fan of them. They're especially great because you can enjoy them while you're doing something else, so you'll probably become a more productive person if you get into them. Subscribe to a few political podcasts, a couple about films, comedy, any other topic you find interesting.

Title	Becoming interesting enough?
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Date	May 9, 2017 11:31 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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