Long story short, this week I was on a date with a girl...We went to the mall, hung out a bit and I said I wanted to get a soda so we took the elevator down to the supermarket. I "accidentally" hit the button to the parking floor, she seemed bothered with that (first sign I didn't pay attention to). She complained how it was a long walk from the parking lot to the supermarket. I was gonna kiss her in the elevator when it opens to the parking lot but there were a lot of people so I didn't. We got the soda and when coming back up I led her to take the elevator from the parking lot again which she was so reluctant to do (second sign). I just started walking towards it so she finally complied. This time it was empty...So without any warning or tension whatsoever, I went for a kiss and got rejected. Now the moment I got rejected I freaked out. I didn't know what to do or say even though I learned from RSD Jeffy that you just laugh it off and say "yea so anyway" and switch topic. It was so different in real life. I kind of froze. The girl had an even more dramatic reaction...It was sooo fucking awkward. She stopped talking to me and her eyes got watery...She left and said "everyone just treats me like a slut" under her breath. Which means she had problems of her own and it has little to do with me...But still, I do have problems with making a kiss happen. This was my first time getting a kiss rejected. I kissed girls before and it happened either because we were drunk, they were too adventurous or they liked me too much. (I'm still a newbie, duh).

So, next week I have a date with another girl in that mall that I'm planning to kiss & pull later. I know most of you guys are gonna say "JUST DO IT" but c'mon now...I'm kinda confused on how to do it at the right time or at least set it up right...Should I stop talking about logical things before I do it? Should I for example say "Nope, don't even think about it!" or "I'm not gonna kiss you" and triangle gaze while inside the elevator to create sexual tension before I do it? & how should I react if I got rejected again?

Thank you so much in advance, you guys rock! And before someone say it, yes I know that kissing is nothing and you can fuck a girl without kissing her. But I'm a newbie and I'm trying to take it step by step and work on skill by skill.