Alright, so let's say you're at a social event. A bar, club, party, caffee, whatever. You see someone you like, approach and start up a conversation. You get a few laughs and smiles and all is going well. But how can you be sure that there is attraction there? I mean yeah, seduction is essentially about presenting yourself in a way that is attractive and persuading the other person to like you (simply put i guess). But often i confuse her being attracted with her just enjoying the extra attention. Obviously i try to be less needy (i do spill unnecessary emotion sometimes, working on it). What's your opinion?