How to Talk to Girls and Get Them Attracted: The Definitive Guide

unknown_poo · 2017-06-01T14:22:06+00:00

Nice post. Very succinct. A good reminder as well. I like how you focus on the vibe and less the words as well. Much of communication is non-verbal, so strong eye contact and a smile go a long way. When I smile, they smile. It's cool.

I would add that if you're kind of new then practice on people that you wouldn't be sexually interested in first. Go to the mall and talk to staff, especially in clothing stores as well, including the hot women afterwards.

I just want to also add another important point related to your self-esteem. The article mentions not to waste your time on women who would never be into you. I think a lot of guys see these strategies as these 'truths' that if you follow correctly will cause a woman to be attracted to you. That's false. There is no causal effect; the fact is, for reasons beyond your control, some women won't be attracted to you. Or maybe they will be, but wouldn't date you for reasons that are valid or invalid. If you get hung up on trying to 'win' a girl over, you're destroying your self-esteem, and the longer you chase the longer it will take to rebuild yourself. Mostly its because of unhealthy thought patterns that we then attribute meaning to (I had this thought which means I'm not good enough, etc.) It also conditions you to 'look backwards' mentally, forming a prevention oriented mindset. Always look forward. If she's not interested, just move on.

gradcasanova · 2017-06-02T04:24:29+00:00

"Life is too short to play it safe"

I really like that.

xu7 · 2017-06-02T12:58:38+00:00

The photos are totally irrelevant.

nave256 · 2017-06-01T14:01:45+00:00

simple go straight to her and talk friendly just introduce yourself
make sure she is comfortable
dont ask anything , just compliment her
start talking like this "hi , i am .............. you looks so pretty from there, just wanted to see you close " and if she likes you she will say something positively and if not she will say something rudely
if she tells her name ask for coffee make sure you compliment her dress and smile when ever you meet her

if you dont like my way you try your own way

2017-06-01T18:44:35+00:00

Nice

triplehpain · 2017-06-01T18:21:25+00:00

Great information. Quick question: is it ok to use this info at other places rather than just a bar, for instance the gym?

bsutansalt · 2017-06-02T03:02:41+00:00

Fairly decent article.

fisted48times · 2017-06-03T22:21:37+00:00

Is it important to mention some forbidden topics you should never talk about on the first date, some seem obvious but you never know when to stop sometimes you just say whatever surfaces on your mind

mizoTm · 2017-06-02T10:00:52+00:00

Your articles are dope man. Keep the good stuff coming.

celiseninsan · 2017-06-01T18:30:26+00:00

http://i.imgur.com/LIE2RTF.png

Easiest way to get them attracted.

Title	How to Talk to Girls and Get Them Attracted: The Definitive Guide
Author	gradcasanova
Upvotes	470
Comments	28
Date	June 1, 2017 12:49 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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