Do we just avoid SJWs?

23490865243879526487 · 2014-10-04T10:16:28+00:00

I feel like if I avoid her she is really getting what she desires

Why do you give a shit what she desires? You don't live your life to spite people do you? Live your life to do what you want for yourself. Getting stood up like that is not something you should automatically tolerate from women you are actually trying to fuck, but a chubby lesbian "friend"? Don't waste another neuron in your brain and a second of your time thinking about her. Go lift some weights and spin some plates.

mrpoopistan · 2014-10-04T16:04:46+00:00

Avoid? No.

Apply the same rules? Oh, yes.

There's no reason to believe that any one person's fake social signaling bullshit is better than the next person's. The fake bitch trying to get with a basketball star isn't any worse than the fake bitch trying to convince everyone that she's Mother Teresa.

A fake bitch is a fake bitch without regard to what her game might be.

The same rules apply to fake bitches, real bitches and just plain bitches. She's either pointed your direction and working toward your cause, or she gets her ass nexted.

Watermelon_Salesman · 2014-10-04T09:53:55+00:00

Yes, avoid them.

Don't debate anyone with whom you don't share a common ground. When people disagree, it's usually due to some much deeper disagreement on their understanding on reality. RP and BP, for example. There's absolutely no point in discussing with those people, you're just waiting your time.

fyseaking · 2014-10-04T06:43:22+00:00

Definitely looks like you need to next her. Don't get hung up on her, don't clear your schedule up the whole day for someone. If she's doesn't hang out with you by the time you agreed just do other productive shit. If she never gets back at you then nothing was lost because you were lifting/spinning plates/etc. If she does and you're busy tell her that you can't now. This will make you seem more important than her and could be played as a tad bit of dread. Bonus points if you never actually get in contact with her first and she's more likely to pester you about it instead.

OneTouchHowMuch · 2014-10-06T05:32:57+00:00

On that day I asked her where she wanted to go and at what time, she said she was busy and she'd get back to me when she was done.

This is why you don't ask. You suggest/make plans and inform. I.e. "Tuesday works for me. 7pm?"

If she can't, she'll tell you and then it's up to her to counter-offer/re-schedule. If she doesn't, she is subtly communicating that she doesn't want to meet.

She never got back to me.

She is subtly communicating that she doesn't want to meet.

She wasted my whole day,

WRONG! YOU wasted your whole day not HER. What the fuck would you do if she hadn't made plans with you? It's your life to live, not hers to plan for you. You should have had a list of things to do of which one of them was meet with her. That way if she flakes, you always have something to do.

I cleared my schedule and for nothing done just because she left me hanging.

This was YOUR mistake not hers. You should very RARELY, I repeat, RARELY clear your schedule for someone. It only leaves you pissed off even if their reason for cancelling is legitimate.

Judging from Facebook she spent all day listening to music and arguing with people online.

Sounds like a very interesting person. Not. Remind us all why you are friends with someone like this? And why are you wasting time scouring her facebook page?

All in all, this was not really her problem - she's gonna be who she is. This was you failing to recognize a few subtle clues about her true desire and ability to hang out with you.

Title	Do we just avoid SJWs?
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Date	October 4, 2014 5:14 AM UTC (11 years ago)
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