Hello I’m 24M..

But there is a few old chats that I read with different girls. And all I can say about them is I used to be more “reserved”, the chats are in 2020-2022.. and even in most of 2023..

I used to know how to crack jokes be funny and also be a little flirty. And I was able to keep the conversation going and confident in saying what I want to say without being fazed, and even handled challenges that came my way perfectly. I was honest if something annoys me, but in a way that sounds good.. Basically sugarcoating the words while setting my boundaries. If I show anyone the chats and ask them to spot the difference they say you were more “reserved”

Now in the other hand, it feels as though they are in the control seat, I can’t handle challenges, force myself to crack jokes and no longer reserved.. I’m even showing signs of being sensitive and insecure.

I can’t believe I used to be more mature in my early twenties than now.. My question is, how to gain my old personality/game back.

At this point I want to have my old chat, a piece of paper, and right down exactly what made me look reserved!