Did I fuck up?

gunnazi1 · 2024-03-15T12:19:25+00:00

When a women pulls back from you like she is now, YOU WITHDRAW YOUR INTEREST. Stop texting and calling her, allow her to reach out to you. YOU NEVER CONFEss You like a girl so early, it puts pressure on her.

Start ghosting, become more unavailable and stop displaying your feelings so much. She will then come back to you.

If you don’t stop blowing up her phone and being so open with how you feel, you will turn her off. Pls I hope u are young as you sound like me at 15.

STOP WEARING YOUR HEART ON YOUR SLEEVE AND BE MORE RESERVED, stop being the girl in the relationship. She seems like the leader and one being pursued, allow for mutual pursuit.

Sorry for the aggression but you REALLY REALLY need to hear this. THE PHONE IS USED TO SET DATES NOR BE A FKING TEXT AND CALL BUDDY

gunnazi1 · 2024-03-15T12:20:53+00:00

Brother you have a date booked, why the hell are you still messaging and calling every day

Never-The_Less7 · 2024-03-15T13:55:23+00:00

You got seduced 😭😭. Act more like her and you’ll be more successful

Dark_NJ · 2024-03-15T12:03:08+00:00

Not down to the tiniest detail, but holy shit this story is so similar to mine. with the same events and everything, a video call for hours late at night, next day boom just snapped like something is off and i don't even fathom why. Been like this for 4 days now with me still waiting for her response.

Ppl will eventually tell you don't chase someone who doesn't want to chase you, but I'm still trying to get over this myself.

ToyPotato · 2024-03-15T13:10:24+00:00

I am in a similar situation. Is there anyway to salvage this or has the ship sailed for good?

DaygameCode · 2024-03-15T13:33:18+00:00

I have been talking with this girl for the last 2 weeks literally every day and also have been talking a lot in call, sometimes we even passed all the night just talking

First mistake here, talking a lot over the phone and not meeting up, acting like she is your long distance girlfriend when she is someone you haven’t even kissed or hooked up with. Way too much investment and basically makes you a text buddy, not a potential lover.

At the start I didn’t really know if she just wanted to be friends or if she was interested in a romantic way,

That’s irrelevant, what matters is what you want and whether you go after it, and her job is only to accept or de y your advances. If you are not clear with her about your intentions then you can safely assume that you will get friendzoned.

some days ago in call she said clearly that she is interested in me and wants to know me more and I honestly just snapped, I said to her that I really liked her, pretty much like confessing

Another mistake. Never confess. And Never tell a girl you really like her, if you haven’t even kissed her or sleep with her.

At the end we still talked via text in the night but I felt like she was less responsive and then I saw her online on WhatsApp and I got jealous and told her if she wasn’t interested anymore she could just says so.

I have seen guys say shit like that to women so many times, i can guarantee you it’s one of the worst fuck ups. It only shows how needy you are, and it’s a huge turn off for women.

You will never get anything positive from a woman by showing how frustrated you are that she doesn’t give you the attention that you seek.

Never! every time you think about whining and complaining to a woman, aleyas remember that you will fuck up as soon as you do it and the woman will never change her behavior.

And specially when she is just a person you met online, lol this kind of complaints would only be appropriate if she was your actual girlfriend that you have fucked and kissed and gone out with in multiple dates, not someone you met over texts.

And even if she was your girlfriend, it still is not the best of ideas to show her how much of a whiny bitch you become when she doesn’t give you more attention.

You fucked up big time in every possible way, it’s like you don’t know women at all. Yeah, move on dude.

hellopitty112 · 2024-03-15T13:44:27+00:00

Got too needy, chill out a bit my guy

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-15T16:19:28+00:00

Why is that there is a post like this every other day and you losers never learn your lesson.

sullenfcker · 2024-03-15T21:21:03+00:00

It's kind of strange that she stopped being consistent but I think you shouldn't call off the date. Go and feel it out! I'm the kind of person who takes my time responding and can be inconsistent. So I hate it when people take it personally when they shouldn't. 😅

I want to nicely tell you to chill out a little bit. Let things cook haha. You may be overthinking, and I hope it all goes well for you.

YellowFlashv · 2024-03-18T02:19:16+00:00

You sound like a punk that doesn’t kno what he wants. You shouldn’t be on the phone with a woman all night and definitely don’t apologize after saying how you feel, learn to say what you mean and mean what you say.

You also sound a bit thirsty, from reading this I’d assume you sent a paragraph professing your love after only 2 weeks. Jealous? We don’t do that tighten up my guy

MMA_Influenced2 · 2024-03-16T03:54:09+00:00

You know what? Don't listen to these fools. Here's the real answer. You keep pushing forward BUT with confidence. You value yourself. You believe in yourself. You believe you are worth her time but you know what you believe she is worth your time too and it's okay for you to tell her that. Go out on that date. And stop showing insecurity.

Don't listen to these virgins on here telling you to play mind games. Be a confident, strong, fun man. That's probably why she spent so much time talking to you in the first place. Let things happen at a normal speed. And in person.

Title	Did I fuck up?
Author	MangoGuides
Upvotes	14
Comments	32
Date	March 15, 2024 11:51 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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