When feminists are claiming they don't hate men, they're not being truthful. Whether it's subconscious or not, when it comes to mens issues or anything related to men, they are often apathetic at best if they can't blame him. At worst they find a way to blame men for whatever event occurred on him.

I saw an post of a Reddit story of a guy talking about a girl that has been stalking him and harassing him despite him showing he's not interested in him. He mentions he's wary around women due to his past experiences with them, involving abuse. A comment calls him a sexist for being wary around women, ignoring the rest of the story where he's stalked and harassed.

I saw a Reddit post asking men what they love about their wives, and most of the answers consisted of men talking what they love about their wives. It was a mostly wholesome thread, but it didn't take long to find comments claiming that these men were sexist for talking about the things that their do and that they should love their wives for who they are (even though who you are is based on your actions).

I saw a reel of a Reddit story of a guy who was uncomfortable around his girlfriend because she openly hates men. The comments were praising the girl and calling him soft for being offended, and that misandry isn't real and is just a response to misogyny.

These are just examples but just look at the way they talk about men, they always have that resentment in their tone and their choice of words. They're so quick to find a way to vilify him too.