Advice for bringing girls back to your place the same day/night

saulisdating · 2024-02-04T15:12:01+00:00

When you get girls all hot and bothered at the club and there’s enough sexual tension so you can make out - if you don’t capitalise on that sexual tension and pull them home - they will often lose interest in you the next day. Mostly because the sexual tension will dissipate by then, they will “sober up” and start thinking of you in a logical and not emotional way. Some will even think you’re a pussy for not making your move to hook up, or think you weren’t interested in them and regret their actions. Basically, buyer’s remorse the next day.

When you’re making out with a girl at the club, she’s emotional and her “buying temperature” is high. You also know she’s into you, you know there’s chemistry there. That’s when you need to go for the pull. And you can do that in many different ways.

If the sexual tension is really high, you can just take her by the hand and lead her towards the exit, saying something like “Hey, let’s get out of here.” Or “Let’s go for drinks at my place wink wink.” And if she’s into you and you have great body language, intensity and actually lead her, she’ll go with you.

If the sexual tension is there but isn’t super strong, or if she’s a shy girl and not used to hooking up, you can also try to pull but then you need some plausible deniability first. Basically an excuse to go to your place, not specifically for sex but to do something fun. So she doesn’t think to herself she’s a slut and so she can later rationalise to herself that “I was at his place to do whatever, then one thing lead to another and things just happened.” So you invite her in to watch some videos, show her your guitar skills, bake some cookies, or whatever else you can think of, it’s largely irrelevant as long as it sounds fun and believable.

How do you keep the vibe going and escalate? Well if you got to the point of the makeout, keep doing what you’re doing. But also don’t make out too much as that will actually dissipate sexual tension and get boring fast. Instead, break off the kiss first, then TEASE her with near-kisses and don’t actually kiss her until you get home - that’ll be her reward for coming along. Then just escalate with your physicality, eye contact, sexual innuendos, being challenging and fun, push/pulling etc. until you see she wants you bad. Basically dangle that carrot of emotions and sexual tension in front of her. And then go for the pull.

There’s a bit more to it than that but these are the basics.

TRTGymBro · 2024-02-04T15:04:21+00:00

I'm over this place. I'm heading back home for a nightcap if you want to join me.

LeadingHovercraft412 · 2024-02-05T02:56:21+00:00

Once you've made it clear, you're sexually attracted, maybe kissing, dancing, touching each other. Just tell her what you want for the night. Chances are, if you live close, she'll be in your bed within 10 minutes. The reason why this works in night game is because both of you are at the club for the same reason. Now, it's about establishing the connection and settling the logistics.

Future_Shop_384 · 2024-02-05T04:10:08+00:00

This happens in movies more so than the average person's life. If you know the girl and it's headed that direction go for it. But for a complete stranger to fall for you to the point, she wants to sleep with you in only a couple hours is pretty rare. Especially when a woman has more to worry about than a guy. I've had several girls hint at it but never go through. It's happened a few times though. Once when they were out of town. Another woman I met at a bar, and she was married but I didn't know. Another time during the day, and that's my PB for f-close like Olympic record time upon first meeting.

respectful_spanker · 2024-02-04T19:22:28+00:00

Tell her you want to go jamming or movies or some song. Ask about these before hand. If you have alcohol or cannibs you can just tell we'll do that and vibe.

TRTGymBro · 2024-02-05T12:02:53+00:00

You are asking the wrong question. Your question should be: how do I find the girls that ALREADY WANT to be taken home that night?

Title	Advice for bringing girls back to your place the same day/night
Author	No_Lettuce7271
Upvotes	6
Comments	21
Date	February 4, 2024 2:31 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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