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FlynnRideHer1 · 2024-01-28T18:55:55+00:00

Don't play games. Be straight and honest with people

vynziii · 2024-01-28T17:45:56+00:00

More than ever

CharmingRejector · 2024-01-28T22:02:44+00:00

It depends how you do it. It may be a strat for women bcos they're supposed to play the passive part in the dating game, but IMHO it's decidely a bad strat for a man, unless you need to ghost someone for disrespecting you.

Also: Don't play hard to get if you're hard to like.

Most men play "hard to get" due to insecurities. Instead, you should simply not chase. Especially if you act or seem arrogant.

Simply not chasing will solve 99 percent of your problems. But you still have to be social, inclusive and cool. And IMHO that doesn't jive well with acting "hard to get" or "aloof" or stuff like that.

So, do go out and have fun and meet people, but don't go out to "get laid." Already by going out in order to "get laid" you've failed your quest of acting "hard to get." Bcos a guy who goes out to "get laid" can by its very essence not be hard to get.

Instead, be fun and social, with everyone. This is in its essence attractive. Which means you'll have more fun, and less hassle, getting laid, bcos you're acting in a way that will naturally get you into intimate situations with women anyway, or they'll want to be with you privately anyway. At this point you won't even need to ask for contact deets. It'll just happen as you find like-minded women.

AceOfSpadesGymBro5 · 2024-01-28T19:35:00+00:00

It has never stopped working and is probably the only thing that truly works.

Aware-Frosting3357 · 2024-01-28T19:38:13+00:00

Genuinely being hard to get will inevitably help you get laid.

Pretending to be hard to get will probably still work, but do you really want to invest time and energy into something like this ?

Title	Question?
Author	Aware-Frosting3357
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	January 28, 2024 5:40 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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