Should you approach a girl working at a stall in a festival?

Special-Protection-6 · 2024-01-28T03:08:35+00:00

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that, but I would advise that you go into the situation, understanding that she’s there to work, and be respectful with whatever responses she gives.

4SHO710 · 2024-01-28T04:07:53+00:00

It’s context dependent. I don’t approach unless I get some clear signals. If she smiles and makes eye contact excessively with me that she doesn’t with others then yeah. Otherwise she’s just being polite and doing her job.

It’s not like a regular approach. You have to read the room per se. But if you get green lights you can talk to her and eventually ask her what time she gets off.

Happyseducer · 2024-01-28T04:17:20+00:00

Short answer is no.

I say that because there is no reason to "approach" her. Guys seem hell bent on obviousl walking across a chasm in a straight line to initiate a conversation. You could easily fall into a conversation with her, flirt a bit and go from there. But it all depends on your skill.

For me the main indicator is this: Do you often get dates with girls off of cold approach? If you do not the answer is do not go for a girl who is working. As if your game does not work on a girl who is not working, there is no reason it would work on a girl who is working. Yet she is forced to talk to you , so you may misread her.

Whereas if you consistently get results and you are saavy enough to read situation then have at it.

2024-01-28T10:38:52+00:00

Yes especially if she gives you no visible clues, and she ignores you. Post the video too.

FlatRobots · 2024-01-28T05:21:49+00:00

Of course. Unless it's super busy and she needs to concentrate on work, she's probably bored standing there all day. Just make a cold read and ask her how it's going. After three or four sentences, introduce yourself and ask for her name.

At events like festivals, there's always shit going on, so you can always start a conversation with "Yo, I just saw..." or "Did you see...?". If you can't remember anything noteworthy (in which case it would be a very boring event), just come up with something like "Did you see that huge guy in a bear costume?".

2024-01-28T05:34:26+00:00

Huh?

Dandys3107 · 2024-01-28T07:12:00+00:00

You just need to be extra mindful in such situations, try not to bother a girl and make your move in private if possible. If you think there is something more between you, you can give her the note asking for number, or take her aside for a moment and suggest going for a walk after she finishes her shift. Stay extra respectful and make it clear that she is free to decline.

tacoman0077 · 2024-01-28T10:15:03+00:00

“Hey I know you’re working and if your boss comes over, we can totally pretend we’re talking about work… but I just loved your energy and you have the most adorable smile”. Small talk (how’s your festival been so far?). Close “It’s been amazing chatting… there is just something about and I’d really like to find out more… can I have your number and blah blah blah. Goodluck

basedkuuk123456 · 2024-01-28T11:21:08+00:00

No, there's tons of drunk/high girls around her who do have free time. Go for them.

epimpstyle · 2024-01-28T12:28:25+00:00

The question is WHY should you do this?

bonkwodny · 2024-01-28T15:55:42+00:00

Sure. I do it

quent_hand · 2024-01-28T21:47:10+00:00

It’s up to you 🤷🏻‍♂️

Title	Should you approach a girl working at a stall in a festival?
Author	DNAngel23
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	January 28, 2024 3:01 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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