How often do you go out to meet women

Woujo · 2017-06-12T12:59:50+00:00

You don't ever go out and do anything fun?

rmbarnes · 2017-06-12T06:35:18+00:00

I actively go out with the intention of meeting women a a few times a week. Once you have overcome AA and have a reasonable success rate it's conceivable someone could work approaching into his day to day life.

The answers pretty simple though. If you can get good results just opening when going about your day to day life, do that. If not go out regularly just to meet women and approach and approach.

MisterBurgerFace · 2017-06-12T11:48:41+00:00

Don't go out with the intention of meeting women. Even though some people find success doing that, it's actually a very faulty mentality. Your goal is to be spontaneous, not to go out with a set goal, because then you are going to fall short of your expectations, especially if you are unskilled.

Go out and talk to everyone, men, women, children (assuming it's in the middle of the day), and yourself (in the park without any clothes one). I'm joking about the last part but you get my point.

volcanolairbadguy · 2017-06-12T17:59:06+00:00

Long time lurker. First time poster (sorta). Been in game since summer 2009 (between LTRs). Its not what you think it is. As a youth, I spent time "doing game." As I got older, I make it a way of life so, gym day, chat girl up at front door, regulars, etc. on way in/out. Grocery store shopping (#GAINZ), chat up babes, acquire digits, pull etc. Yes, go out to bars or clubs but, its not about turning on my pickup game, putting on my fake fucking wig and mustache + bringing my new bag of magic tricks to the bar. You treat life like one big set you just merge. You chat up women like you 1. already know &&& 2. had already fucked them. Any awkwardness is on her and note women can be awkward even after a hookup (her anxiety, sense of self concept, feeling judged, slut, etc). As for products (pimp/shift/tengame/tm/natural/mmm), its about 99% nonsense, 1% actual content worth listening + applying. Its about $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$. Get girls bro. More importantly, cultivate good feels through a self engineered routine (gym, cardio, running, martial arts, meditation, yoga, biz/self employed, travel etc.). Women, sex, game, etc. is all just a bonus of that by product of lifestyle. After all these years, I am not pua or mpua but, guess what? Neither is luke or Madison.

UndidIridium · 2017-06-12T18:42:21+00:00

Im always home and rarely go out.

You need to fix that. And this, from an introvert (me).

Go out to do activities for you. Meeting people while you're doing your thing is a mere consequence, and an active choice (you can opt to just do your thing (run errands, see a movie, clothes shopping, etc.) and not approach-women-to-flirt-with if you don't want to).

That said, if you go out expressly to meet women, you WILL give off a creepy vibe, and will have a very low success rate, if at all. Do not do this.

DaygameCoach · 2017-06-12T06:09:08+00:00

Both. Set aside time to go out and approach women...and venues where there are a lot of options.....and approach women in places you already happen to be (like the supermarket, cafes, bars, etc). How often you do it depends on how quickly you want to meet your goals. I was out nearly every day talking to women.

2017-06-12T14:20:15+00:00

I don't do it nearly as often as a few years ago, simply because I'm satisfied with my current relationship. I will, however, engage in conversation whenever I feel like it, just for shits and giggles.

So yeah, any opportunity to engage should be viewed as a good one until you see clear indicators that it's not.

Title	How often do you go out to meet women
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Date	June 12, 2017 3:07 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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