I told my gf that I would leave if I wasn't getting sex and she got upset... she says she doesn't need sex (when she is the one who always initiates when we are together) to be happy and will be happy wether I give her sex or not... but in person she jumps on me... but when apart she acts like she doesn't want it or need it... won't send me nudes sometimes but in person will fuck me without a moment's notice... I'm so confused.. should probably mention this is long distance.. see each other every couple of weeks... I feel like I might be being blue pill when we are apart but red pill when we are togethe

Also I've come to realise that she has a super hamster... is this a red flag? Or do all women have super hamsters and I'm just realising it now?