Help meeting 9s and 10s!!!

Maomaobadmonkey · 2017-07-13T04:43:48+00:00

Married for awhile now but in my single days I was running around with 9s and 10s on an average guys HB scale. Still friends with a bunch on FB to this day.

First I needed to be confident in myself being a 9 or 10 mentally immediately. What I mean by this is if I personally held myself to this mentality I was on their level therefore they aren't higher or better than me, it made approaching feel no different than your standard approach and that sets the frame for me and my mentality among high value women. If you believe you're worthy you will convey that naturally.

Physically you should at least dress on the level of the upscale environments if that's where you are with a splash of uniqueness to set you apart from the others. I frequented many upscale lounges and that's where I practiced 9 / 10 game. My confident style of choice was usually a velvet blazer and nice jeans and a funny shirt underneath or a really nice shirt with a toy watch from McDonald's. The idea for me is that I appear to have class but also a touch of humor. They always ask questions or compliment the toy watch or funny shirt or a necklace or whatever I felt like going silly with. This already breaks the typical male who is balling out of control displays these ladies are used to seeing.

Now approach for me usually was always something of a humorous game, I would start with a funny loud observation in their earshot zone and if they acknowledge it in some way high five "see I'm good enough to drive home right? I'm not tripping?" "Or maybe we are both pretty drunk" if it elicits a giggle of positive response at this point you I would proceed with escalation.

I personally have experienced high value women to be very responsive to people who can make them laugh and actually don't put them on a pedestal and self deprecate myself in light humor but not sad depressing self deprecation. This mixture seems to make it seem like you don't give a shit about how you present yourself you aren't trying hard and more genuine. But remember calibrate and observe what advantages and information about your targeted pickup and surrounding environment can be useful to you.

Over time I would hang out with these same girls at different lounges and almost always came off as instantly a high value male because of their company. Never underestimate the value of having high value company. There are many men in this world far better looking than me and would scratch their heads thinking how the hell did this hobbit pick up these hot women.

I think at some point after doing this often, you will come to understand that 9 and 10s aren't that different to a casual pickup. 9 and 10s have far more self confidence in themselves but that just means you gotta match them socially and if you can make them laugh you've already broken their filter. If you can't match them socially practice practice practice until you lock down being witty, playful, flirty and most of all stand out over the rest.

danielinthebox · 2017-07-12T23:31:05+00:00

Everyone wants what they can't have so basically you need to be someone who they can't get and make it a challenge for them to get you

Methaxetamine · 2017-07-12T23:14:05+00:00

Looks, status and money. Not every indian is a chief. I can't pull them regularly but the guys that do have looks status or money, combination is even better.

spliffgang · 2017-07-12T20:21:13+00:00

treat them just like any other bitch, theyre not special

ultra_violet007 · 2017-07-13T01:41:34+00:00

Maybe don't refer to women as numbers? That might help you talk to women as people and not objectives.

Title	Help meeting 9s and 10s!!!
Author	heatboii
Upvotes	0
Comments	21
Date	July 12, 2017 8:16 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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