What are signs that a girl is checking you out?

DirkDieGurke · 2017-08-04T19:58:03+00:00

Makes eye contact, and smiles.

If you're looking for anything more blatant then what you really want is for her to do all the work so you can avoid rejection.

2017-08-04T20:30:24+00:00

Long and repeated stares.. not glances. glances dont mean shit. means they have eyes and eyes look around on any human being or animal.

If shes looking at your hands a certain way, staring at your junk, or your muscles /arms/forearms... These are sexual observations shes making about your body

Other girls will smile at you... or toward their body towards you if in a small space.. maybe fix their hair up, check their makeup on selfie camera.. etc

SIgns dont mean shit though. You know why? Because these days too many guys are scared to take advantage of any signs or cues.. and nothing happens. Then comes along a guy who isn't scared to take action, and doesn't even look for signs when he picks up chicks.. who comes and scoops the girl and gets laid.. doesnt ever hear from her again... nor does he care! <---If you aren't that guy.. don't force yourself to be.. it wont work. just focus on building your confidence so you can create the right mindset and situation for that to be a possibility.

2017-08-04T20:13:00+00:00

Agree with those who said eye contact and smiling, but smiling isn’t always the case. But they will definitely keep glancing at you. If you’re within conversation distance, look for her gaze going from your eyes to your lips, or lower. Some girls I notice staring right at my crotch or waistline, even as I’m talking to them. MY EYES ARE UP HERE LADIES.

ETA: Another good indicator, but not as common unless they’re drunk or really into you, is they will keep touching you. On the arm or shoulder, usually. Also watch her feet, which direction they point. Feet are one of the most reliable yet overlooked indicators of interest, sexual or otherwise, because most people aren’t consciously aware of what they are doing with them. If they are pointed in your direction as she stands, even if she is looking somewhere else, that’s better than if they are pointing away.

Randomredditguy2 · 2017-08-05T01:37:20+00:00

If they stare at you more than 3 times while you're not looking (peripheral vision is good for detecting this). She angles her body about 45 degrees so you can see more of her, and she flicks her hair and primps. She's basically trying to get you to look at her. This happened to me today, unfortunately I was with my girlfriend at the time so no dice.

ryanr_intl · 2017-08-04T19:58:58+00:00

They wear signs nowadays, for example if she has on a shirt that says turbo-slut I believe that there will be many other signs that she will be checking you out. But be very aware that there may be others around you who may also garner her attention.

SadFinance · 2017-08-05T02:54:30+00:00

Blatant: when a girl makes eye contact, then scans you from your head down to your toes then back up, and smiles afterwards. Crotch staring and butt staring are also popular among the girl crowd from time to time.

non-blatant: eye contact, double takes, staring and quickly looking away afterwards.

ziondelta · 2017-08-05T06:13:02+00:00

she already checked you out the moment she noticed you

69jesus420 · 2017-08-04T20:27:59+00:00

Just yawn if she yawns back then she was looking at you. In reality though I think lots of consistent eye contact and smiling is a plus.

Also girls that she shy and possibly really like you will look at you wait for you to make eye contact then look down and away.

2017-08-05T01:54:14+00:00

How do you act around girls you like? Do you tend to look at them, steal glances even, and face their direction? Yeah... girls do that stuff too.

marsm · 2017-08-05T11:01:50+00:00

From what I've noticed, there are three types of IOIs:

1) "Safe to ogle" / blatant: you're sitting in a bus and as soon as the bus leaves, she starts staring at you through the window. Same situation vice versa. You're with your girlfriend and/or she is walking with what could be her boyfriend or guy friend, her mom, etc and you get checked out more. The underlying theme here is that there is some kind of obstacle between you and the girl, that makes it less likely next to impossible that you will approach her.

2) Ninja IOIs / non blatant: these are the most common, but extremely hard to pick up, because women are that much faster at noticing guys than the other way round. If you're standing in a club, use a mirror to your advantage: turn away, but keep the mirror in your peripheral vision, keep talking with a friend and you will notice that she starts checking you out from head to toe.

3) Obvious IOIs / blatant: eye contact, smiling but most importantly: moving into your "social" or "personal" distance (google proxemics), i.e. closer than 3m and staying there.

2017-08-05T11:04:56+00:00

Most girls will avoid checking you out if you're looking at them or in their direction. Look slightly away and learn how to see with your peripheral vision. You can see it pretty clearly there.

If a girl looks your direction or behind you/above you/around you, look away from her then see if she flicks her eyes quickly to you or straight up scans you head to toe.

You need to provide the conditions for her to check you out, which, most of the time, is either you doing something noteworthy (e.g., being the center of attention, talking to a cute girl, talking to a cool guy, or being very animated in your mannerisms) or you have good style/looks/muscles/vibe.

MagicStar77 · 2017-08-05T05:45:09+00:00

I get they're checking me out. As soon as I realize it I look back and they pretend like nothing happened.

gaggreene · 2017-08-05T09:26:24+00:00

Is she into you? - https://youtu.be/xa-4IAR_9Yw

2017-08-05T10:46:26+00:00

Indications of interest? In my general experience, it is when a girl is overly nice. When she smiles at you like she wants to be friends (or more). This is hard when you are dealing with customer service people, but since life is short, might as well try and if you don't make it happen, next!

Try asking girls questions like "what are you up to tonight?" It immediately lets her know you're thinking about doing something and you can gauge her response from there.

SuavePadawan · 2017-08-05T12:31:17+00:00

I'm late to the party, but THIS, is all you need.

DaygameCoach · 2017-08-05T14:20:37+00:00

Any of these:

She makes eye contact (sometimes they then look down and back up which is good) Looks at you more than once (including when you can't see them form peripheral vision or behind They scan you from top to bottom but sometimes it's obvious (they meant you to see it) and sometimes it's done in intervals, so you don't notice it. They see you and then hair toss, adjust clothing, highlight themselves (point to lips or head or do that thing with hands under head like a platter), or another IOI.

Read superflirt and Superdate by Tracey Cox for body language of flirting with pictures.

Bottom line is it doesn't matter if they are checking you out, open them anyway. Stop waiting.

Title	What are signs that a girl is checking you out?
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Date	August 4, 2017 7:07 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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