How do you start texting a girl without being needy?

lupodipy · 2017-08-11T19:14:38+00:00

Try one more time, and then move on

itsnotevenwhack · 2017-08-12T02:22:39+00:00

You keep talking to other girls to remind yourself that this chick isn't special. Seriously. Never stop trying to get numbers until you're exclusive with someone. No joke. I've got 5 dates this week. And if the chick I just got back from going out with never texts me again I won't care. She was attractive and smart too. But I've got options. That's what you need, options!

edit: she got back to me, we're having dinner tonight.

Kennyiskickass · 2017-08-11T22:31:09+00:00

Be funny and genuinely don't care if she texts you back. Just remember the interested ones will always text back within a day. Also, it's ok to tease them, especially if they stop responding. My favorite line when I get no response for a couple hours is "that's it! I want a divorce". That only works if you've already been funny and she knows you're kidding. Also, text game is fickle so really there's not much point in investing in this method. As to what to say for this particular girl, how was the last time ya'll interacted? Say something funny or interesting, could be something that has to do with her or just completely random. You'll be able to tell by her texts if she's interested, if she's giving you little response just move on. Also if you have balls you can just call her and there's much less bullshit and uncertainty. You will be able to tell by her voice if she wants it or not.

Return_Of_BG_97 · 2017-08-11T22:28:07+00:00

Just ask how she's been

If she flakes, move on.

p1243 · 2017-08-11T22:59:20+00:00

Dont text. Call her! Say that you are going to "place X" and thought of her, ask her if she wants to join you.

11-Eleven-11 · 2017-08-11T23:00:38+00:00

Make sure you're only texting for logistics. In this case keep it short with how have you beens and go for the kill.

Jack__Knife · 2017-08-11T20:02:43+00:00

"I saw something that reminded me of you."

69jesus420 · 2017-08-11T21:01:56+00:00

u up...

greenidiot314 · 2017-08-12T10:28:53+00:00

Only text once per day or less max. Wait an hour before responding. Don't send another text until they respond u won't look needy

Title	How do you start texting a girl without being needy?
Author	lerkappa
Upvotes	5
Comments	13
Date	August 11, 2017 6:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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