Men have been socially conditioned to pay for women. Movies, music, television, etc has brainwashed men into thinking that women only are interested in men with money so men try to live up to that expectation.

The feminist movement has changed that to a certain extent and some women are starting to pay for themselves however there are still a lot of confused guys out there.

I’m not saying there is anything wrong with paying for women however it depends on the context of the relationship that you have with a woman.

  1. Paying for a woman whom you are in a relationship with
  2. Paying for women who you just met or that you are casually dating.

Paying While In A Relationship

There is nothing wrong with paying for things for your lady. You know she is invested in you so it’s no big deal.

Of course you aren't going to pay for everything because you aren’t a free ride, there still needs to be boundaries.

If you live in the western world then more than likely your woman will have a full-time job so she will have the ability to pay for things on her own. If you live with your girlfriend then you should be paying for things 50/50.

Things like dinner, drinks, movies, etc there is nothing wrong with you paying for that most of the time and her paying for those things from time to time.

As long as your woman is meeting your needs sexually, mentally and emotionally then paying is no big deal because she is invested in you.

Paying While Out And Casual Dating

Never buy a woman you just meet at the bar or club a drink. That is the fastest way to be seen like every other guy and get used and abused by women.

Now when it comes to women you are casually dating aka fuck buddies then that is a little bit different.

Most of the time with a fuck buddy you invite her to your place or go over to her place and you have sex and go on about your business.

However if you actually like hanging with your fuck buddy and you want to go out with her then you should pay. I always have this rule that the person who does the inviting pays.

If a woman you are casually dating invites you to go to dinner, movie, etc then she should pay. I always tell them, “Since you invited then you pay.”

If they bitch about it then I don’t go out. A woman like that is looking for a free ride and you should get rid of her asap.

By using those principles I haven’t gotten used by women in years. I simply stick to those rules and spend no to little money on women and still have an amazing dating and sex life. Try them out and let me know how they work for you.

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