What advice do you have for a 20 year old incoming junior virgin in college who has never had a relationship?

kfkfoe · 2017-08-17T14:55:11+00:00

Stop feeling bad about being sexual and wanting to fuck girls. It's completely normal. When you are being sexual other guys see you as a threat and therefore try to get you out of your own frame.

A lot about being sexual is about your body language. You should use laser eye contact, breaking rapport tonality where your voice goes down at the end and start being more physical with girls.

Now to your frame. You should start to realize your own value and see yourself as sex-worthy and on the top. When you start feeling good and secure about yourself, it will get way easier for you to attract women. When you realize your own value, you won't give a shit about what other people think about your opinions. You learn to say no and you will suddently out of nowhere use emotional spiking without even thinking about it.

Example: Her: "I love strawberries" You: "Strawberries? I hate them. It will never workout between us. (Turnaway)

Also, instead of taking value and joining her fun, you should offer value and add to the fun. When you approach a girl, do you join her "party" or do you create your own? It's important that you create your own party when approaching.

Don't be scared to challenge girls and start to incooperate teasing, role plays, misinterpretation, kino escalation, sexual hoops, disqualification, sexual innuendo and push-pull into your game. These techniques I just mentioned are the ones that you miss out on right now.

When you have your conversations at the moment they are probably like this:

You: Hey what's your name? Her: Hey, my name is Kaila You: Nice to meet you Kaila! My name is Noluc You: What's your major? Her: I'm studying economics and business administration You: Cool, I'm studing _____ You: Which year? Her: It's my second year, you? You: Same, where are you from? Her: I live and am raised in New York City You: Cool, I'm from Vegas

Instead of this flat-line talk, you should add emotional spikes both positive and negative through the techniques I mentioned before.

Example:

You: You: Hey I just saw you and I'm sure that I would regret if I didn't come see you! what's your name? (Positive emotional spike + Acknowledging that you are a sexual being) Her: That's sweet! My name is Kaila! You: Nice to meet you Kaila! That's a lovely name. However, my ex's name was Kaila, so I don't think it could work out for us. My name is Noluc (Push-pull) You: What's your major? Her: I'm studying economics and business administration You: Ohh, you are a little nerd aren't you? ;) (Emotional spike) Her: No, I'm not!! You: You look so cute when you are angry ;) (Emotional spike) You: Sure, sure ;) Which year? Her: It's my second year You: Same, I'm studying Phsycology and communication, I just love to hear about humans think and communicate! where are you from? Her: That's lovely! I live and am raised in New York City You: Cool, I love New York, it's a fantastic city! I'm born and raised in Vegas! Her: Vegas is an amazing city as well! You: We should travel to Vegas, get drunk and get married. (Roleplaying) Her: Haha, that sounds like a great idea You: However, I would divorce you the day after and take all your money, so be careful ;) (Roleyplaying.

As you see the second interaction is much more fun and full of emotions, which is what you should aim for. Use the techniques I provided you and work on them one by one. At the same time make sure to be real. Express your own personality and opinions and put them on the line. That's what it's all about!

Endoss · 2017-08-17T14:28:25+00:00

Your conversations are boring. The last thing someone in school wants to talk about is school. Here's a handy acronym for what to talk about:

FORD - Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams

Don't talk about RAPE - Religion, Abortion, Politics, Economics. Also don't talk about rape.

This is just a starting point, but the general idea is that you need to elicit an emotional response during your conversation. Talking about someone's major will not make them want to keep talking to you.

kfkfoe · 2017-08-17T14:57:12+00:00

You can basically talk about anything you want, as long as you put your personality on the line, are playful and real.

ItsreallyAdamv · 2017-08-17T18:24:03+00:00

The top piece of advice I can give you is to keep it relaxed and casual. Keep doing what you're doing, and eventually youll learn a few tips and tricks to help you out... In the meantime, check out these videos, they'll help you out a lot!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pt9m36CFk8Q&t=4s

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RyOxQ9Wav5o&t=38s

H8CourtshipALot217 · 2017-08-24T19:57:41+00:00

there are many guys out there well into their 20's who are just like you

Title	What advice do you have for a 20 year old incoming junior virgin in college who has never had a relationship?
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