I'm not a TRPer, and I'm not trying to incite anything or attack anyone. I am legitimately curious how I would fit into the TRP worldview. Maybe you'll just call me beta and move on, idk, I'm curious is all.

I have no desire to be the dominant person in my relationship. My girlfriend and I are 100% equals and are both completely devoted and honest with each other. I trust her completely, and she trusts me. We love each other very much, and I know that her love is unconditional (she's learned some things about my past that should have, according to TRP theory made her run for the hills, but she accepted me and it's made us closer and stronger).

For me, the majority of my friends are women. I get along better with them, and the women I know are some of the most intelligent, funny, good, accomplished people I know.

I have no interest in starting a family. If I do in the future and it's an option, I would rather be the one to stay at home with the children. I like children, and my career could easily be a work-from-home thing.

So I'm wondering what y'all think of this. If TRP is the way of the world, why am I still happy and accomplished and in a fulfilling relationship?

Please, I'm not trying to offend. I'm legitimately trying to understand. I mentioned this once to a TRPer in the wild and he called me a pussy, but didn't tell me why.