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Intimacy and seduction.

Zoidberg22 · 2017-08-22T19:57:13+00:00

As a general point, is it ok to use seduction techniques to build attraction for long term intimacy? I do crave sex from time to time but the intimacy say in a...

Zoidberg22

August 22, 2017

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Title	Intimacy and seduction.
Author	Zoidberg22
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	August 22, 2017 7:57 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6vdm2v/intimacy_and_seduction/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/intimacy-and-seduction.1432444 https://theredarchive.com/post/1432444

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No, gaming a girl does not build intimacy.

He asked about "seduction" and the core skills of that, are the social skills that people use every day. These most certainly can build intimacy.

If you want a real relationship with a girl that lasts you drop the PUA shit and start to communicate honestly and openly.

The first issue here, is that you are lumping all of "seduction" together as if the whole scene is still JUST the old school philosophy based on Mystery Method and the like.

But it's not. If you've been around here at all, you realize that there was a counter-movement away from Mystery Method and the techniques associated with the "PUA shit" you're referring to.

Now we have guys like James Marshall, Nick Sparks, Mark Manson, and David Wygant teaching "seduction" and being more honest, natural, and open, is precisely what they recommend.

Most of the crap spouted here on this board is how to get laid, not really how to get a GF.

Many posts here are by newbs who come here thinking that "seduction" is a bunch of short cuts (it's not) and like you, don't know any better.

Many posts here, are definitely by guys who just want to get laid. That doesn't magically change the fact that the core skills of seduction are socializing. Socializing has many uses, including pursuit of sex OR a GF.

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