No idea what to do with tinder matches.

JusKeepinItReal · 2018-03-13T02:54:31+00:00

This one opener has given me about 80% response rate. It really only works with girls that speak English as other languages won't really understand.

Send "Do you spit or swallow watermelon seeds?" and on most phones it will show up as "Do you spit or swallow..."

For some reason women are more prone to respond angrily to messages they find offensive than to respond to actual messages trying to talk. So (i presume) they will see the message, get mad and open it up about to send you a rude message when they see the whole thing and will find it amusing (if they have a sense of humor).

It's rare that a girl won't respond at all to it and only one time has a girl actually took offensive to it. In addition to being a good conversation starter it starts thing of flirty.

also i have used, if a girl has good details in her bio write her a corny rap. that usually gets a laugh

MicDrop2017 · 2018-03-12T22:25:28+00:00

You get tinder matches?

chinese-bible · 2018-03-12T19:47:13+00:00

To be honest, be generally normal, somewhat interesting, ask a simple question (where do you want to travel) ... or something in her profile that catches your eye. Keep it short.

Shocking, I know. Don't say "Aye want some fuck" / "Hey" or a huge dancing-monkey paragraphs-long opener.

You be normal. You asks a question that's easy to answer. Your profile itself (pics) do most of the heavy lifting online. If you're not getting responses, fix your pics.

LingeringGnome · 2018-03-12T20:37:37+00:00

Remember that a lot of women on Tinder are doing it impulsively because they're horny, just like you. As ALWAYS, the best opener is honest, crisp, and direct:

Hey Kylie, I'm a big fan of getting to the point, so let's hang out tonight.

Hey Kylie, I like that wild look in your eyes.

Hey Kylie, I'm not going to lie: if we met up I'd make a move right away.

Hey Kylie, are you as worked up tonight as I am?

Note what I didn't use:

Hey Kylie, how's your day going?

Hey Kylie, I like that pic of your dog. It's funny!

Hey Kylie, you are so beautiful.

The first examples are coming from a man who understands that Tinder is for hooking up, and he's looking for women who understand that too (IE women who won't waste his time).

shabaad · 2018-03-12T18:45:18+00:00

You can try a simple "Kylie!" or "Julia!" depending on her name of course and let her answer first.

Another strategy I used 2 and half years ago was "Hey, I wanted to know you but I am not so sure anymore...". However, with this one you have to keep a strong frame because if you are weak the girls will see through it and wreck yoi immediately

BNKGood · 2018-03-13T00:35:53+00:00

Ask them their opinions on nude beaches, I get a reply every time and it opens up interesting conversations!

yellowidiot314 · 2018-03-13T06:04:54+00:00

I feel like chicks use this app, while bored. They like the pics, but don't really know what to do after that. I feel like most girls use the app for social networking. Some other people have commented that girls are strictly looking for fuck buddies but that hasn't been my experience.

The_Reddit_Jester · 2018-03-12T20:33:05+00:00

My advice is either message something based on their profile, or send a gif.

weallwantsomethink · 2018-03-13T10:41:24+00:00

What you have to do is stand out. So I never start a first message with "Hey name,"

Because this is what everybody does. But even when I was doing it I got responses.

I usually just make a funny or a "we know us" observation.

There doesn't seem to be a trick to it. Except for standing out. But for the most part a woman just has to be availible and open to a new tindercontact. She must have time and space in her life.

She won't suddenly respond to you if you have a smart opener forgetting she has a bf or is too busy. I think 80 percent of the time if you don't get a respons it is out of your control. And if you are really clever you can be that 20 percent. But it doesn't matter because her life won't change because of a brief tinderconversation. So it won't lead to a meetup.

noelataB · 2018-03-13T09:16:59+00:00

My go to line was "Hey what's up". I'd say it as soon as I saw the match. No waiting days or hours to try think of what to say, just straight up "Hey what's up" (unless there one something that particularly caught my interest in their profile).

Got responses most of the time. When I didn't get a response I figured it wouldn't go far anyway.

gtrman571 · 2018-03-13T03:58:38+00:00

What do you guys think of this one: "I'm guessing your name is (girls name)? I don't mean to brag or anything but I'm a really good guesser... "

Caoa14396 · 2018-03-12T20:07:47+00:00

"hey, doing anything fun this weekend?" then branch out to interests or cool places you could show her.

RayMilano009 · 2018-03-13T01:00:59+00:00

On tinder, just start with a "Hi" and see if they respond. They will usually answer back with a "Hey, how's it going?".

Even profile observations do work also, but it's best to test the waters to get the girls to invest. Try to have good images. No selfies. Put images of yourself having fun and doing some activities.

If you're not getting responses from tinder and you have great images, don't use tinder. It will be a waste of time. Girls on tinder tend to be more superficial than girls you meet in person. I've met many girls who don't even know how to use it because they don't need it and they're usually more fun to be around because they don't care about just looks.

bcnewell313 · 2018-03-12T18:32:08+00:00

Usually sex is the way to go.

SocialReject101 · 2018-03-13T08:33:15+00:00

The one opener that helped me almost 100% of the time was using the tactic of Observation, Approval of her Competence, Mystery and Compliment. For example you have a cute girl with profile info that says she loves dogs and there is a tulip flower she is holding in one pic and a sushi in other.

Example:

Me: Hi, after inspecting your profile I have come to the conclusion that your expertise will be able to help me solve this one urgent matter and I would really need your opinion on this situation? Can you help me?

Her (most of the time): well, I guess I can try.

Me: So I have this girl who I really like. She has beautiful hair [ vaguely describe and compliment her looks from profile pics], she dresses well and likes colourful outfits. [Mandatory positive comment on her style] and loves animals. [ keep it a bit misterious so she can't recognize herself at first]. I wanted to ask her out. What do you think? Should I ask her out for a walk with dogs in a park and a cup of coffee or should I invite her to a sushi bar?

Her [after recognizing herself]: I think she would like a walk with dogs and maybe some ice cream. Etc etc.

Some of them have complemented me for one of the greatest pick ups ever seen. You play mysterious, show yourself to be very observing and intelligent and giving value to her. In the end it is a witty pickup line that incorporates many crucial character traits that girls seek out in a guy. Also this pick up is an automatic set for a date and you can fish out her preferences and judge for yourself whether you are interested. It also demonstrates boldness from your side.

Since I am a social retard props go to tinderseduction.com since this is where I found this tactic.

I ruined the dates tho

sloopy_sails · 2018-03-12T18:45:14+00:00

Have you tried talking to them as if they were, for example, a human?

Title	No idea what to do with tinder matches.
Author	Zoidberg22
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Date	March 12, 2018 6:28 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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