I don't think in the past I have consciously flirted with girls, it's more of a "that looks good on you, or a you're younger than your age etc..." I know that innuendos and tension are key in escalating once you meet a girl. Since I usually have to initiate and girls don't give me that much attention, I do think that's reason of my utter inability to be anything more than a friend to a girl or someone they're sexually attracted to. And also about asking someone out, since I don't frame it that way, more of a hangout where I want to get to know them better. I want to get better at this, just don't know where to start and take it to where I needs to go.