Has RP theory made you want to get a divorce?

TrashedSockPuppet · 2014-11-01T23:13:33+00:00

Yes. It has for me. You can check my post history to read my life story if you want.

However...

It's false. At least I came to this conclusion myself after seriously considering it. It's just you trying to blame someone else for your failures or trying to make an external choice in order to not have to make an internal one.

Basically, it's like if instead of working out, which is tedious, boring and embarassing, you'd just buy yourself new clothes and accesories, and go "okay I made a meaningful change". Or you stop playing videogames and start watching TV instead.

No. Really, no. It's easy to fool yourself that "you're changing". It's fun to purchase yourself something new and throw away something old. Actually changing is not fun, it requires handling pain, depression and severe repentance. It requires accepting the fact that you screwed up, wasted time and formed a pussy out of yourself. Sucks to admit that.

RP is not about fucking multiple women. It's about being a proper male. You don't have to fuck multiple women to become a proper male. You have to excercise, change your habbits, re-wire your brain, get out of your comfort zone and get hurt, and so on.

If you really focus on improving yourself, you will see improvements in a month or two. When you improve yourself reasonably well, meaning, you make some visible progress, and your woman does not react to it at all, but you see other women take interest in you - maybe then it's time to consider divorce...

newlifeasredpill · 2014-11-02T11:50:30+00:00

I found this place while on a sure road to divorce. As I improve myself and as my attitude changes..the marriage got better. My marriage needed me to care less not more. Wife senses this and stepped up her game in many ways. Best of all it is on a positive loop now where it continues to improve

How long have you been feeling this way and why?

binrobinro · 2014-11-02T19:03:53+00:00

No. My wife did.

vengefully_yours · 2014-11-02T04:10:35+00:00

Cheaper to keep her. I've been through it twice, that bitch can fuck your world so easy it's ludicrous. Once you've been through it, you have misgivings about doing it again. Then you find a unicorn and decide to try again only to find out AWALT.

If it's going ok, work on yourself, keep improving, and get her to step up the wife shit. You're in it now, you made the choice, you're fucked for sure one way.

If you want, I'll come by and fuck her silly, that way you have a reason, I get some extra sex, and she gets sore. It's a win all around.

BluepillProfessor · 2014-11-02T20:47:27+00:00

Red Pill theory saved my marriage. We have never been happier.

Don't make important decisions like this until you have fully processed the red pill which takes a minimum of 6 months.

Being married should not interfere with you becoming a better man. Be that and you may be surprised that your wife becomes your biggest and most important cheerleader for continuing that improvement.

And if she doesn't, there will still be plenty of time to consider your alternatives- because by then you will have them.

[deleted] · 2014-11-02T12:34:43+00:00

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copralalic · 2014-11-03T00:36:52+00:00

Yes.

If you go through with it you will go through a lot of phases, including loneliness and regret. You will wonder about what you could have done to fix it instead of ending it. It's hard, but if it's the right thing, then you shouldn't be afraid and just do it.

If you have kids, or other major considerations, think it through. Most marriages can be saved (which means some can't), but not all of them should be.

blzd · 2014-11-02T16:50:38+00:00

Leave your wife, she deserves better.

sigmared82 · 2014-11-01T23:10:05+00:00

I've been thinking a lot about this myself. Women are dream killers.

oldredder · 2014-11-02T22:02:10+00:00

HAHAHA.

I would want a divorce before even getting married so I never got married.

I don't trust women enough to even have them sleep over. Married? Please.

There are guys that do it but I'd only use the RP-married style stuff if I was already married. Knowing in advance what nonsense it is, I'd never ever get married.

Title	Has RP theory made you want to get a divorce?
Author	TrashedSockPuppet
Upvotes	15
Comments	25
Date	November 1, 2014 10:32 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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