Read a comment on seddit that pointed out there was no need to text her you had a good time after the first date because you probably told her at the end... it it changed an old habit of mine. I would always text her that I had good time at the end of the night or the next morning because it seemed like the gentleman thing to do (nice guy syndrome?).

But for those of you that like to do this kind of stuff, at what point do you start talking to her more consistently to ask about her day, share little things you come across, etc. without it coming across as needy?