You don't have to be interesting, you just have to interest her.

Acerhand · 2017-09-29T21:00:22+00:00

it basically boils down to selling yourself. as does a lot in life.

If you know the art of selling and enticing peoples imaginations you got it. imagination is the key to sales imo, and so is it for seduction in this sense.

Appealing and pressing the right buttons, knowing how to convey emotion and create it. story telling. they all have that in common. A good story teller can make a mundane trip to the shops exciting for much the same reasons. notice that people love to be around good story tellers.

Knowing your audience is key. if you know what they like and dislike, and who they want to be, they are putty in your hands.

ThrowawayPUA · 2017-09-30T00:50:51+00:00

You don't have to be the most interesting guy in the room. You just have to be more interesting than average. That is a very low threshold.

_MysticFox · 2017-09-30T04:21:30+00:00

How do I get better at storytelling?

recyclablebanthas · 2017-09-30T12:55:42+00:00

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Being interesting to a woman isn't about how many cool things you did.....It's about the story you tell her.

I'm sure you've hard of RSD Tyler. He talks about people's emotional states and how people will often be compelled to mirror yours. (Not always, but often.)

Being interesting merely requires being interested in people. Showing interest for others. Getting them to open up. Facilitating conversation(s). Being in an interested state, leads others to be interested.

Look, telling stories can be a good skill to develop. But this whole thread is opening up the idea that we all need to be master storytellers to get girls. Which is false. What's worse, trying to be interesting is a great way to end up looking try-hard.

All you have to do is get the girl to open up and it'll be verbal diarrhea. There's no need to wrack your brain to come up with good stories and practice presentation of them. Work smarter, no harder. The girl will give you all the material you need to work with.

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What gets me is that because of this thread, we'll see a few guys coming back in a few weeks or months time asking for tips as to how to tell a good story. When none of this is foundational.

The basics are 1.) Opening, 2.) Having a conversation, 3.) physically escalating as you interact while gauging interest levels, 4.) Isolating yourselves, and 5.) Sex. Story-telling well without being a try-hard, while a valid skill, is an advanced one that you might try your hand at AFTER you can reliably meet your dating goals already.

tjger · 2017-09-30T05:49:55+00:00

A disclaimer should be included that this is true for short term.

The truth is, that to get long term results, you need long term solutions.

As a man, your masculine energy should drive you to be focused on improvement.

2017-09-30T06:17:47+00:00

Wrong. You just need to be tall. If you're short then it doesn't matter how interesting you are, you're just another unattractive 'creep'.

Title	You don't have to be interesting, you just have to interest her.
Author	sorry_mommy
Upvotes	106
Comments	19
Date	September 29, 2017 6:28 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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