What are your thoughts on having them? And to those of you who are fathers already, how has it altered your perspective on being (and your ability to remain) RP?

I don't want to get too much into the details of my private life here, so long-story short; my fiancée might be pregnant. She's going to be getting tested next week but she's been having so many pregnancy symptoms that I've pretty much resigned to the fact that I'm going to become a father. I'm almost certain that she's pregnant.

Up until this point I had thought I wanted kids; in fact I'm sure I still do at some point, but this hit me like a train and I realise that I'm really not ready for this at all, nor is she. We're both pretty young and haven't done much of anything with our lives yet. I'm mostly against abortion so I'm not even considering that and obviously I wouldn't want to give it up.

I'm not really asking for advice, I just want to hear you guys' thoughts on the matter. If she really is pregnant there isn't a whole lot I can do except prepare for it.