I hate who I've become.

NunoHimself · 2017-10-14T09:10:47+00:00

Owen Cook, also known as Tyler Durden, was very poor and autistic. Couldn't understand social cues, at all. Today, he's one of the founders of Real Social Dynamics, the most successful dating and self development company in the world and history, having several best sellers in the market. He's an icon in the industry and most likely the best "mpua" in the world. Something being hard isn't an excuse to not do it, it simply means that you're gonna have to use all of your capacities to go through it. If you can think of it, you can do it. To quote the popular music from Flashdance,"Take your passion. Make it happen. Pictures come alive. You can dance right through your life. What a feeling."

Westernleaning · 2017-10-14T12:21:11+00:00

First off if you are schizophrenic it isn’t who you’ve become. It’s a psychiatric disorder and something you need to learn to live with before you can even think of pickup or much else. If you’re in a mental institution you’re there for a reason and that’s for treatment. You need to learn how to live with it. Don’t be too hard on yourself. One step at a time. The easiest way to fail is by trying to do too many things at once. Visions do not accompany all kinds of schizophrenia and neither do they materialize at once.

I thought schizophrenia could only pass to a female progeny from her mother? Or am I mistaken? I’ll let an expert talk.

I grew up with a schizophrenic mother. She was also very physically and emotionally abusive. She wasn’t diagnosed until a lot later but her aunt was a schizophrenic too; like idiots we never put it together until later. I can’t even start to tell you some of the things I witnessed as a kid/young adult. One of the worst parts was how other family members would castigate my mother for being evil, out of control etc. they always had an answer but knew nothing about what they were talking about. But she was sick and needed help. I can’t even imagine the horrors she was seeing in her head to behave the way she did. I’m in my mid-30s now and still undoing many of the coping mechanisms I created to deal with her behavior. It created tremendous issues for me when it came to women and intimacy and even communicating with people in everyday life. It’s something that can be overcome but it will take you a lot more effort than the average person and it will cause you more frustration. Focus on getting yourself better for now. That’s step 1 to becoming something better and getting to a better place.

And to answer your question directly you can still have a great life and don’t need to be a loner but if you are a schizophrenic you will need to protect yourself more than other people do.

SigmaCronos · 2017-10-14T05:49:37+00:00

Mental health diagnosis is shit. Get 1 patient and 6 psychiatrists in a room and you'll get over 10 different diagnoses.

Take it from a "mental health professional"....most folks i see diagnosed with schizophrenia and/or bipolar disorder have emotional problems stemming from unstable upbringings, typically with abuse +/- neglect.

Whether you do or don't have schizophrenia, i think that everyone could benefit from some good therapy.

Oh, and to answer both of your questions: "hell yes!". You just gotta put in the work.

chiefchief23 · 2017-10-14T10:27:40+00:00

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bergkampinthesheets · 2017-10-14T13:51:54+00:00

What is normal though? Everyone has their demons. The best advice is to be able to build systems around you that help you achieve your goals in life. (e.g what can you do to be purposeful and productive? what help can you take when you're feeling miserable? What solutions work for you when you're facing mental issues?) Build systems around knowing your self to create a stable base for your life. The objective is to figure out a blue print to make your day happy and purposeful.

Once you have a decent hold over this, it will get easier to make friends because you will be more comfortable with owning and opening up about who you really are.

Since you mentioned being in a facility and trying to deal with schizophrenia, I suggest that you also try to talk to people. Otherwise it will be a lonely place. Realizing that everyone is human, and too involved in their own lives trying to face their demons, you will figure out that we all share a common humanity. That is a good enough reason to start talking to people and getting out of your comfort zone.

DavidGolani11 · 2017-10-15T06:46:04+00:00

The magic of the internet allows you to talk to people from everywhere, so use it.

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Title	I hate who I've become.
Author	Brandon0428
Upvotes	23
Comments	8
Date	October 14, 2017 5:12 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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