When you approach women, do you know if they'll like you or not? Do you go by how attractive they are? The more attractive they are, the more likely they'll reject you? Let's put some things into perspective.

*Let's say you have a woman, who on a scale of 1-10, she looks like a solid 15! Imagine you see her talking to a guy who looks like he can play the next superhero in a Marvel movie. You may think she likes this guy because in your mind, you have been conditioned that attractive women are attracted to "attractive men". Well, let's reverse back in time for a moment when she was a kid. She wasn't like the other girls. She liked playing sports, she liked watching action flicks, and she liked reading comic books. Now let's go back to present times. She may look like a model out of King Magazine (a men's magazine that uses models who are more thicker or just have big juicy butts), but the kid in her loves watching action flicks. When the new movies based off of comic book characters come out (Marvel or Dc), she gets more excited than finding a sale on some Red Bottoms (these are women's shoes).

Imagine this same woman found it hard to meet a man because all the men treated her like she was to be put in a glass case. They worshiped her. This is from the least attractive guys to the most attractive guys. Now let's say you came along and got to know her. You found out that she like movies based off of comic books and all that good stuff. You also like these types of movies. She likes watching sports, you like watching sports. She's into action movies, you're into action movies. Not because you're trying to impress her, but because the both of you have these things in common. Imagine how much time the both of you can spend together doing things the both of you like. You don't have to be dragged to see something she likes and you hate or you don't have to drag her to something you like and she hates... you have similar interests.

If a woman finds a guy like this, who's cool as hell, and fun as hell, and also knows how to not land himself in the friend zone, are you telling me she won't want to date this guy? You telling me that she won't want to go home with this guy because she feels connected to him more than any guy she's ever dated?*

Well, you won't know until you go up and approach. There are more down-to-Earth beautiful women who are into the things that men like. Go on YouTube and look up some of these gamer girls. Look at some of these Cosplay girls who watch Anime or read comic books. Just because she's hot doesn't mean she doesn't like the stuff you like. Just because she's hot doesn't mean she won't find an average-looking guy attractive because "they connect".

It's time to find these women. The only way you can is by approaching until you find them. When you adopt this mindset, without making women seem like objects (that's a chick thing to say, right?), it will be like you're looking for a brand new car that you want. Yes, there are other nice cars all over the lot, but you have one specific car in mind. If you can't find the one you want, you'll find the closest thing to it.

Look for the connection with women. After a while you'll notice that you are not only more confident approaching some of the best-looking women, but also able to reject the best-looking women.