It works for me, might work for you. If you get to the end (or earlier than that sometimes), I guarantee you'll get laid. I'll also take this post to approach some of the typical doubts/excuses. If you want to practice I advise you to go through all the steps, if you just want to get laid you can jump through the majority of the steps pretty fast.

 

 

I'll include explanations and time guidelines for you to keep track of your progress. It's focused in night game (works in daygame with some changes). You can use this with friends/wing or alone in any part of the world. Your race/height/looks don't matter, unless half of your face is burned or you have a missing limb. If that's the case, I'd go for less attractive girls like fatties/ugly girls. Lets be realistic here, this shit isn't magic.

 

 

Go to the next step whenever you feel comfortable in the current step. By comfortable, I mean not being necessary to use will power to do it, flows naturally. Follow them by order. Don't add or subtract nothing, do it exactly as I'm telling you.

 

 

BEFORE STARTING

I recommend you to put yourself in "the zone" before going out. This is when you feel social and you do the right moves naturally. Talk with as many people as possible, ideally girls, before starting. You don't actually need to do this, but it'll make things easier.

 

 

BEGINNING OF THE NIGHT

When everyone is getting to the clubs, events, etc. I'd start in the street first and enter the club when I'm social. I'll put a bridge in the end.

 

  • Fistbump someone. Can be a guy or a girl, but we're picking up girls here, so I'd do it more on girls.

 

 

  • Free associate. Say whatever comes to mind without it having to make sense, but still speak a language. Instead of "unicorn penguin rainbow" say "the unicorns and the penguins united to protect the rainbow".

 

  • Approach a group.

 

  • Talk with a girl. Don't qualify yourself, assume that you know her. When you/her start feeling awkward, say "Okay, good night!" and leave.

 

  • Once she's somewhat responsive, build rapport. Try to move her if you can (know her logistics).

 

 

MIDDLE OF THE NIGHT

When people start kissing or getting intimate.

 

  • Flirt. (1) Not hardcore, a light flirt.

 

  • Touch<sup>1</sup>.

 

  • Tease<sup>1</sup>.

 

  • Determine logistics. Ask about their friends and plans for the night.

 

  • Lead<sup>1</sup>. Not necessarily to another venue, it can be "My foot hurts, lets sit", "It's too loud here, lets go to the bar", "Come" and you lean against the wall next to you, etc.

 

  • Phone numbers. "You seem cool so far, lets exchange numbers, maybe we can eat something later". You can also pull the phone back when she's about to grab it and ask for your name (if she doesn't remember, say "Shit, I don't remember yours either"). Stay at least 5 minutes after getting it, don't just leave.

 

  • Approach guy/girl groups. Determine their relationship (Are they friends or a couple? - "How did you meet?") and befriend the guy.

 

 

END OF THE NIGHT

People start making out, having sexual activities (fingering) and/or leaving the club. Easier to spot in the dance floor.

 

  • Lead hard.

 

  • Man to woman communication. You should be horny talking to her. Tell her you want to fuck her without saying it - eye contact, proximity (shouldn't look like rape), tone of voice, squaring up, touch, etc. Law of state transference applies here.

 

  • Make out. With one or more girls if you can.

 

  • Pull for fun times. Assuming that you've been seeding the pull ("I'm kinda hungry, anyway..."). Have a place to go to after the club. Ideally a restaurant or something close to your house and where you are. You don't want to "trick her" (it's basically an excuse that both of you are aware of just to get the fuck out of there), if she's into you you'll not need it.

 

 

NOTES:

 

  • Actually be yourself, don't filter but still respect social norms. Don't try to look cool, you're not.

 

  • Don't self judge.

 

  • Don't self qualify.

 

  • Talk as if you know them. The happy eyes, imagine your eyes going bright.

 

  • Minimize time between interactions, don't walk around.

 

  • Be numb to rejections, either ignore or troll. For example, Jeffy used to have a "Members Only" jacket, and when he got rejected he'd dress it and be like "Oh yeah? What about now huh? What about now?" lol. Trolling often gets you in set again.

 

  • Don't reach for approval, enjoy socializing for the sake of doing it.

 

  • Get present.

 

  • Recognize when you're trying to rush things and put the gas down.

 

  • If guys try to assert status over you (intimidate or mock you), ignore it. Say shit like "Thanks!".

 

  • If a girl shit tests you and you don't have nothing clever/funny, tell her to shut up like this or say any random shit/story or, if it's congruent, "Your mom [insert]... in the ass" ("You're stupid!" "Your mom is stupid... in the ass!") or "By [insert] you mean [insert]" ("You're stupid!" "By stupid you mean awesome!"). These will work with every shit test. Thanks Jeffy and Alex.

 

 

Also, realize this. Everyone is like a group of 5yo kids in kindergarten, treat them like that. You can pretty much walk around trolling everyone, grab their hat, interrupt a group to say "I have an extremely small penis... do you still accept me? :(", no one is gonna do shit! Watch Danny Duncan, look how he goes through life. Do the same. It's not a matter of gaining more skill/knowledge, it's a matter of letting go and do whatever you want. This isn't rocket science. To quote the holy prophet sent by God to illuminate our paths, Jeffrey Louis Allen, "Everyone is bored. Give them something different to talk about and make it easy for them to suck your dick and not feel guilty about it." Truer words have never been spoken.

 

Hope it was helpful.

 

Have a good one.