K-closed and now She says "it wasn't really cool to do that"

gregory2112 · 2017-11-16T02:56:07+00:00

Just one important thing to consider here...

If she went along with kissing and then got mad and made you out to be a bad guy....

What will happen if you eventually have sex with her?

Her "second thoughts" could paint you as a rapist and fuck up your life pretty massively!

Just something to think about in this age of the blame game

P.S. a "shit test" would have been her saying something like "I'll bet you make that move on every girl you date"

DirkDieGurke · 2017-11-16T02:43:32+00:00

Walk away dude. This is not normal in any way. If you're story is accurate.

2017-11-16T01:23:07+00:00

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2017-11-16T03:49:32+00:00

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TehKazlehoff · 2017-11-16T04:04:45+00:00

i dont comment here often. dude, bail. gtfo. something wrong there.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-11-16T05:03:47+00:00

There's this... "feminist virtue signaling trend" going on now where they've made consent into something so complicated you need a legal contract drawn up every time you touch someone's hand. It's insanely extreme.

She may have been listening to some friends who only heard "omg he kissed you without asking for consent that's so rapey omgomg He SHOULD have done exactly xyz blah blah blah" and completely missed the part where she was happy and excited to be kissed, and now her heads all done in.

I'd go have a talk with her, ask questions, find out directly what tf is going on, then decide whether this can be saved or not.

⚠Proceed with caution.

2017-11-16T14:55:23+00:00

As a women i can tell you that shit isn’t normal. She sounds like a crazy. find the next exit and get the fuck out of there haha

2017-11-16T04:03:11+00:00

Part of this is why I'd didn't touch relationships at all in high school. She said to other that you're her boyfriend without even telling you? Run away

Ash_Gray27 · 2017-11-16T12:19:28+00:00

Say sorry you felt this way and make sure she get's an full apology and move on.

PresidentGanker · 2017-11-16T15:35:24+00:00

Tell her she needs to be more direct with you, and tell you when she has problems with your behavior to your face, quickly, because it's normal to kiss a girl without directly asking. The hard part about it is phrasing this diplomatically.

gekseks · 2017-11-16T15:43:27+00:00

As others brought up the feminist card, I thought I'd play into that, even if I think using that label just blurs everything and turns one against the other as it's generally misused and misunderstood.

She seemed ok at the time, perhaps she truly was, but after the thought she may have reconsidered, or even guilt tripped herself (tradition, religion, "waiting" etc). Perhaps you went too fast, perhaps communication wasn't clear and the go ahead wasn't truly there. If you want to salvage this in any way and/or avoid later rumors/confusion/problems perhaps you should consider talking it out. Is there a perfect way to handle this? Absolutely not, but if she felt she was abused and you ignore the whole thing you're probably setting yourself up to be perceived as the bad guy and not just by her if you see where I'm going.

It doesn't matter the subject, male or female, when we deal with things we have little to no experience in we'll sometimes accept things that we weren't 100% ok with. It's part of growing up.

2017-11-16T02:07:17+00:00

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photogenic_penis · 2017-11-16T02:15:35+00:00

Don't respond. At all. Seriously. If you run into her at school, smile- say hi, and be on your way. Other than that, no contact.

She's very immature, even for HS.

This is what happened: you kissed her, she kissed you back, and then after the fact, she had trouble reconciling her "good girl" self-image with her actions. So you must be the bad guy.

Or she told a friend (some envious fat girl or fem-boi white knight)... and they spit some Feminist poison in her ears. So you must be the bad guy.

Either way, this girl poses a significant danger to you. Stay away. I'll bet you that she'll have multi-colored hair within one year.

2017-11-18T08:11:07+00:00

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Title	K-closed and now She says "it wasn't really cool to do that"
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Upvotes	15
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Date	November 16, 2017 1:19 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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