Okay, so I am 95% sure this is the wrong subreddit for this, but I am posting cuz I am desperate for some advice.

So the situation is as follows:

me: 19 years old girl that I like: 23 ish

So I have been seeing, (just hanging out, recently cuddled and made out with), for like 2 weeks though we've been friends (??) for a while. I want to have sex with her, but according to her I am not dominant enough, I am not "assertive". Which I do admit is probably true cuz I haven't been in many sexual relationships, if any lmao, and I am scared that I will do something that will make her uncomfortable. So there's that...

However, two nights ago, we were talking and for some weird reason the concept of a threesome came up and she was like I have never had one and me being the dumbass (smartass ???) that I am told her that I can arrange it. To be fair, I can; she didnt want anybody from our campus, we are in college, and I can easily arrange an escort, though it'll cost me (and she's okay with an escort, again surprisingly)

But my concern is this, I have not been intimidate with her sexually yet and she wants to have a threesome, I actually checked with her this morning and she said yes, a little surprised that I had actually arranged it but yes nonetheless.

I am just worried that I am gonna fuck this whole thing up, cuz I have not had any relationships before and I like her, not only sexually, even though it's actually hard to connect with her cuz she's taking things "casually" ...

I don't know what I want, I would much rather have sex with her alone before doing any threesomes that's for sure, but at the same time I want to impress her sexually, cuz she's been in a lot more situations and sexual encounters than I have. I am intimidated a little, excited a lot, scared as well (not for the sex, threesome, but that I will fuck up the greater thing)

So basically help me out with whatever shit I just spewed out, and please fast, cuz this thing is happening in 12 hours lol

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