I tend to lose interest in girls after they start acting up or playing silly games with me. The problem is that most girls I meet seem to do this.

Memphis_Blues_Again · 2017-12-04T23:18:11+00:00

Play stupid games, win stupid prizes.

But of course, you can also embrace it. I'm pretty bipolar when it comes to this question - sometimes I hate the stupid games, sometimes I love playing them because I finally understand the "rules".

You gotta understand that you'll probably never get direct, "logical" feedback from 90% of girls. This is why you take action. By taking action, you're bound to get some reaction. But do you play their stupid games or just be a direct, rude "asshole"?

No. You walk a fine line between those.

Assuming you have interest in dating/fucking that girl, you're going to do the same steps regardless of whatever she puts up. Approach, connect, make comfort, escalate, yadda yadda. You present your intentions by inviting her to a date, kissing etc. Just make sure you expressed what you want and you know the girl understands it. Doesn't matter how - play their games or not.

At this point, what else do you have to do? Nothing. You've done your part.

You say the problem is paying attention. I usually invite them 2 times somewhere, if they're not up for that I stop giving them attention. Simple. Trying to make you jealous? Why should you care? You can have fun with hundreds of girls right now, nobody's time is exclusively reserved for you and vice versa. Abundance. If you have it, you won't give a flying shit about her games.

If you want to play those games? Yep, you can do it. Just remember it might result in manipulating and lots of other nasty stuff. I will admit I also did it for fun. With time you'll gather enough social and emotional intelligence which will reveal a lot of badly hidden, insecure bunch of lies and stories some girls might throw at you. Experience it if you want - but stay detached and rational.

Really, as long as you're being a normal, confident human being you don't have anything to fear. If they need to play games to interact with other people, rethink if you really want any business with them.

It's fun to see people acting and thinking they're so good at games. Just remember, quality people don't play that kind of games.

the1399element · 2017-12-04T19:12:02+00:00

Man, that's just girls.

Don't hate girls for who they are.

Title	I tend to lose interest in girls after they start acting up or playing silly games with me. The problem is that most girls I meet seem to do this.
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Date	December 4, 2017 6:49 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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