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[–]stevenmarkryan 8 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
On the other side of fear is everything you want in life.
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[–]stevenmarkryan2 points 8 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Rejection/failure are PREREQUISITES for success.
[–]bubba2match 8 years ago [recovered] (7 children) | Copy Link
I'm surprised at how many times my answers to peoples' questions/pleas for help are the same thing: State. In this case, you're worried about how you're coming off to others, which in and of itself it a disruption of your own personal state (the act of worrying/fearing gets in the way of how you come off). It doesn't sound to me like you're actually AFRAID so much as you aren't in a sexual state already. Do you use daily affirmations? If you're CONSTANTLY in a sexual state, and CONSTANTLY open to sexuality, then it won't be about 'making a move'.
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[–]bubba2match 8 years ago [recovered] (5 children) | Copy Link
Some people listen to inspiring music, some use mantras or affirmations, some use totems (like a special set of clothes), and some workout every day. It's whatever makes YOU feel that healthy sexuality that anyone can feel. Then, feel that all the time. Or, offer yourself cues so that you can turn it on when needed. Like a code word. Or a balled fist.
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[–]bubba2match 8 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Meditation.
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[–]bubba2match 8 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Focused. I'll leave it up to you as to whether or should be breath focused or topic focused. Both are a clearing of your mind of all the mental stuff, including the blockages.
[–]Steve_Savage 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Comes right down to confidence. Confidence is sexy to a girl, and when she's ready she will let you know.
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