When people fuck me over and after that i reject them i feel very bad and i think that is because i don't set boundaries. How do i get past that? Im too good of a person and the problem is when someone go past my boundaries i just bounce out, dont give a fuck about anything and avoid drama ( this is not with girls, but with girls that are my friends and guy friends, i use drama to improve connection with the girls that im dating). So as you can see this is only with friends. Then after that they are chasing me and i feel awful rejecting them. What do to