To Fuck a Porn Star or Not?

terryomys · 2014-11-24T04:02:32+00:00

Fuck anything you want to fuck (anything within reason: adult, human, and not severely mentally disabled are a few limits here).

You're not looking for a LTR with her, are you? Then stop worrying. It's just a fuck and a bit of fun. Careful of STDs though.

dtyler86 · 2014-11-24T10:04:03+00:00

Thanks gents. Whats tough is that she seemed legitimately interested and was far cooler and hotter than any girl ive met in a year. And I dont mean a spray tan fake boobs way, so... naturally the dick traffic into her vag and ass have me kind of grossed out, but she hasnt done porn in 3 years.

3rt41 · 2014-11-24T09:20:54+00:00

I say go for it. But just for fucking.

Btw, name?

DownvoteToDisagree · 2014-11-24T15:30:25+00:00

Do you run the other way and assume she's insane and a massive whore, or take it for what it is and take her on a real date and assume she could be a fun girl that might give it up quick?

Your approach is probably off.

Is she insane and a whore? You'd be the best person here to answer that. What really matters is what your gut tells you--do you find her attractive and are you interested in having sex with her? If yes, proceed.
Take her on a real date and assume she'll "give it up quick"? No, I wouldn't take her on a real date. A "9.5 hot girl" gets offers for fancy dinners from BB all the time. She probably hates it when guys approach her to awkwardly go through the motions of spending money on her on the same old boring dates so they can "buy their way in" to her presumably easy pussy. WRONG APPROACH.

A sexy, forward woman will look down on a man who gets overwhelmed and giddy by the allure of her sexuality. Think about how cringeworthy the Gonewild commentors are. You want to be the smooth, down-to-earth, non-judgmental guy who accepts who she is and can keep up with her.

Your approach should not be "yeah, lemme go through the motions and she'll spread her legs." You want to imagine yourself as an equally fun loving, cool-with-casual-sex, but not needy or giddy regarding sex, type of guy. You're going to have a fun time with her over drinks, game her as usual with kino etc., and, at the end of the night, offer to have her at your place because that's just what sexually-open people usually do at the end of the night when they are both attracted to each other.

fortyfourmag · 2014-11-24T04:15:33+00:00

I had a porn star who lived in the same multifamily house as me for a couple years. Plenty of chances, never acted on it. That level of hypergamy makes me limp. Partied with her, but never more.

[deleted] · 2014-11-24T04:24:07+00:00

Knowing that I could would be enough. Would be to turned off to actually do the deed with a porn star.

bakbakgoesherthroat · 2014-11-24T04:43:38+00:00

Plate her. Only go on coffee dates.

rockmasterflex · 2014-11-24T07:43:31+00:00

she's insane and a massive whore

You can do her if you want. Don't escalate past that.

kingofpoplives · 2014-11-24T10:53:54+00:00

assume she's insane and a massive whore

This is a given.

take her on a real date

This is probably not the type who will respond well to beta provider shit like dinner dates. Drinks or coffee is probably fine though.

she could be a fun girl that might give it up quick?

If she's not giving it up quick, knowing her past, I would not pursue further.

fnordsnord · 2014-11-24T16:16:06+00:00

And wrap your tackle. A woman who does multiple and porn is high-risk.

oldredder · 2014-11-26T01:55:40+00:00

I'd get together with her and bang her.

Want a date? Go for a date. Her interest is real. Her humanity is a real thing.

I would not run the other way without seeing some red flags. This is not a red flag to me.

dtyler86 · 2014-11-26T17:50:52+00:00

Thanks all for your input and very much considered advice. Went out with her, had a blast, fucked her senseless and found a legitimately fun and gorgeous person once I disregarded her ass traffic.

Glad I can mark this one off the bucket list.

OneTouchHowMuch · 2014-11-24T05:54:41+00:00

assume she's insane and a massive whore

You should already be doing this with everyone.

Have fun with it.

Title	To Fuck a Porn Star or Not?
Author	dtyler86
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Comments	19
Date	November 24, 2014 4:00 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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