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[–][deleted] 19 points20 points21 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Being lazy or unmotivated is unattractive, but it's beneficial since you can easily make plans with girls that have nothing going on. Usually girls like this are good for FWB or fuckbuddies since they're always free, but I don't like going further than that with them since it's usually boring
[–][deleted] -3 points-2 points-1 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s a good point i didn’t think of
She’s an HB7 at least also, so could be fun for us. Haha
[–]shitbagspud 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, ambition is the sexiest thing ever. Someone without any is equally unsexy
[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I had matched with this girl on Tinder but she didn’t seem like an outgoing type of person and i think that DM might have confirmed that.
[–]vardarac 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Why, though. What's the point.
[–]PotLimitOmaha 2 points3 points4 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
For a girl friend, maybe. If you're tryna hook up with her, then no. She's probably some what insecure and doesn't get a lot of attention from guys. You should try and make plans before you become her texting buddy. Take her out, show her a good time, and try to close.
[–]bigwilly10 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
No prob
[–]hunterpua 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Depends man. If I just want to get laid then I wouldn't look at her personality in the first place. If I want a girlfriend then yeah, that's a turn off.
I actually had this conversation with a girl a month ago. She asked me why I wouldn't have her as a girlfriend and I said, "I like your body but your personality won't fit mine."
[–]PowerBau5 -2 points-1 points0 points 8 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
No it doesn't. I go surfing to get away from my girlfriend. Why the fuck would I want her to join me?
[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I don’t think you understand the reason i asked the question in the post.
The girl said she usually doesn’t do anything. I would rather that a girl do something, but it doesn’t have to be exactly what i do as a hobby; just has to be something that she enjoys and takes up her time so she isn’t always around and being clingy.
Know what i mean?
[–]PowerBau5 -1 points0 points1 point 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You have a point. Are you sure that's what this girl meant though? Didn't you ask her something like "what do you do on weekends?" and she didn't want to make it seem like she was too busy to be asked out on a date by you?
[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I asked her how her schedule looked next week and she told me she usually doesn’t do anything.
I already got her number and urged her to let me know when she knows she free next week for coffee
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