Let's make this short.

  • two days ago i was drunk with my buddies and went home. my LTR GF calls me and starts saying how she's insecure and not sure that i love her. fast forward an hour and i'm all sweet but beta till she fell asleep.

  • for tomorrow she was normal but not too responsive so i started dread game. so far didn't work that much.

  • and today (it was my Birthday) my frinds decided they should make a suprise party and she didn't come (but her aunt did). later tonight her aunt's mom called me and slipped from her mouth somehow that my GF didn't want to come to the party by her own decision.

and now before you all scream the word NEXT i want to know if there's a way to save this or to learn from it.

Note: guys are like mountains that are being climbed by girls, you should never let them reach the top or they'll feel too secure and lose interest. i did just that and want to learn to find a solution other than NEXT

Note: This LTR isn't public for people because of things that are too long to explain but we mutually agreed about keeping the relationship private. so the people that talked about aren't aware of our relationship.

Edit: if you're browsing and thinking that my question is answered, don't. I'm open to all suggestions. Share your knowledge.