I'm in that "I'm done" phase now. It's such a pleasant phase to be in because masturbating to some nice porn feels so fulfilling again. (Although I know it will wear off soon).

I like girls to look at, to dance with, to socialise with (occasionally) and even prefer them as flatmates. But sooner or later, one of these girls that I interact with will convince me to lower my guard, and enter some form of relationship with them... Usually unknowingly... I'll try out this sex thing with them, and before I know it, They are telling me that I've agreed to some kind of verbal contract enforced by way of blackmail, binding me with them until I've sufficiently paid off their dues which usually comes in the form of attention or resources. Now, different girls come with different termination of contract penalties, and admittedly, some have been very nice about my request to terminate the contract.

But I'm just getting tired of this not-so merry go round.

Any tips on extending the "i'm done" phase? Preferably forever?