Update: I Can Ask a Girl to Hang Out But I’m Bad at Closing

danielinthebox · 2018-01-11T08:13:40+00:00

Mate it's a reference experience, learn from it and move on

enkae7317 · 2018-01-12T03:05:31+00:00

Shit brah. You putting too much pressure on yourself. She can see it. Just relax and chill. Go with the flow mang.

Source: I do it to myself too.

Conor_Niggregor · 2018-01-11T06:22:38+00:00

I didn’t feel comfortable making a move on a girl who was this high.

Laughing My Fucking Ass Off!

We just talked for 2 hours. I just have verbal diaharrea when it comes to making small talk when I’m nervous and was too afraid to make a move because she wasn’t sending off great vibes.

She wasn't sending off great vibes? Lol you need to work on your inner game, brah. Stop looking for permission or validation from the bitch. Do what the fuck you want to do. You are the male. The male leads. Just as men are anatomically "outies" and women are anatomically "innies", masculine energy gives, moves outward. Feminine energy receives.

Now stop being a permission boy

She just didn’t give off vibes as being the kind of girl who’s into hooking up.

bro she came to your room

She maybe dropped a subtle hint she liked me (?) by saying that “all the guys I like really end up fucking me over” and then laughed and said “haha I don’t mean that towards you”.

Yes, Forrest Gump, that means she likes you.

I just feel really ashamed at how awkward the night went and that I never made a move but she was pretty high and sending weird vibes.

sending weird vibes... bro, you're not going to get anywhere. You're probably gonna lose this one.

She probably thinks I’m weird and my roommate probably doesn’t respect me as much either because he knows what happened

Maybe

ThePlayfulDom · 2018-01-11T14:59:44+00:00

She was doing everything but straight up telling you to fuck her. Everything. From the high comment (gives her the excuse to be a slut, which is what she wanted) to the relationship stuff, to the ducking everything. Don't worry, I was once as clueless as you (and believe me, you are clearly completely clueless). Sou d's like you should learn a bit about showgirl work before your next missed opportunity. Girls are not like us bro, they are subtle, and you must ALWAYS lead the interaction. There's anxiously a lot more than that to the differences but that's where you went wrong here. You didn't pick up on her "subtle" hints that she was dtf (subtle in quotes because, for a girl, she wasn't even very subtle. In womanese she basically said "please fuck me, daddy"), and you didn't man up and lead. Better luck next time man!

Title	Update: I Can Ask a Girl to Hang Out But I’m Bad at Closing
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Upvotes	3
Comments	10
Date	January 11, 2018 5:58 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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