Girl I liked just told me I am a piece of sh*t.

snowdude11 · 2018-02-03T22:29:55+00:00

Sounds like you exhibited beta behavior for the last month, giving the impression you only wanted to be friends and then came out of no where with romantic intentions and freaked her out.

JE163 · 2018-02-03T22:02:05+00:00

Yeah you did do something wrong. You didn't manage expectations.

You came at her like a friend and tried to weasel your way into her pants. Fucking pathetic behavior.

Shes crying because she just lost her beta orbiter.

Hooosurdaddy · 2018-02-04T01:25:47+00:00

Women are crazy, forget her. Talk to other girl

pensy · 2018-02-04T00:30:30+00:00

I would be proud of myself if I had the balls to tell a girl my true feelings for her. You should be proud of yourself too. Who knows why she had such a strong reaction like crying....jesus. Let me ask you, do you still want to be with such a drama queen? Own your feelings and don't apologise for them. We cannot choose who we are attracted to....we can choose whether to live a life of missed opportunities and regret. Just because this one didn't work out doesn't mean the next one won't either. Play on playa

ThrowawayPUA · 2018-02-04T00:50:48+00:00

Everything was going great till tonight when I told her I have feelings for her and would like to be together.

You fucked up. You cannot "declare your feelings," it will make a woman feel cornered and defensive. Even if she had feelings for you, she would recoil out of habit. That will pretty much kill any feelings she had.

Learn from your mistake and move on.

2018-02-04T01:42:06+00:00

You were not a sexual creature in her eyes and suddenly you basically threw the beta friendship away and flipped the table by saying you want to fuck her. It doesn't work that way.

Her reaction is over the top however she probably feels 'tricked' or like you had this friendship just to fuck her from the start.

This is exactly why you don't approach a girl in a friendly and comfortable manner, at least you know for next time.

recyclablebanthas · 2018-02-04T02:43:40+00:00

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.....I told her I have feelings for her and would like to be together....She asked why was such a piece of trash and why would I do that to her.

You're leaving something out here. Her reaction comes off more like you groped her out of nowhere.

Typical reactions to a too-quick confession of feelings involve the girl saying she's not interested or saying that she doesn't see you that way.

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That's when she asked me if we can stay friends, I basically told her no then she left crying.

Her reaction is really really weird, based on what you said. You're leaving too much out.

How exactly did you meet?
How much physical escalation was there before that night and that night also?
What exactly was the plan that night? Who asked who to meet up? What words were actually said?
What exactly did you do that night until the confession?

Title	Girl I liked just told me I am a piece of sh*t.
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Comments	9
Date	February 3, 2018 9:51 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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